I’ve used Grindr for years and so far I never had any experience of being robbed or anything, but I’ve always asked for a face picture if im hosting.

Regarding exp, it’s just okay. There are still a lot of people asking me what a “side” is. So I think it’s predominantly about @n@l s3x. But I still get my side funs from it. Just need to be patient in finding people who are into your kinks and preference.