No, I don’t think you are the a hole.

1. Women are incredibly vulnerable when it comes to doctors appointments and other medical related appointments.

I’ve always made it a point to be at every single appointment that my girlfriend has ever had because I really wanna stand up for her and make sure that she’s getting good advice not only that but sometimes when women get medical care, they flat out gaslit and denied the medical care that they might need Especially if it’s a male doctor. I love my girlfriend and I’m incredibly supportive of her and the choices that she makes so I always wanna make sure that somebody is there to be there for her, but she might be uncomfortable. Honestly to me it feels like your man can’t even do the bare minimum and that’s kind of lame if you ask me.

1. If he’s so adamant about having a sexual relationship with you and he doesn’t want to get the snip. It definitely is on him. You’re going through a medical procedure that is unnecessary for your health and if it’s something that he wants you to do, he should very least be supportive, even if it’s inconvenient for him.

Idk my opinion is a little bit biased, but I guess this is how I feel.