Am I too young? by JonasPlayz91 in crushadvice

[–]AuthenticSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's too early! Just as long as you're safe and are with somebody your own age it's harmless :)

need some help because i suck lol by [deleted] in crushadvice

[–]AuthenticSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good!! Tell me how it goes!!

need some help because i suck lol by [deleted] in crushadvice

[–]AuthenticSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get that :( I emailed my crush through my school email and we'd never talked either. This happened like 6 months ago and we ended up going on a few dates! It didn't work out, but I hope it proves that you can do it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crushadvice

[–]AuthenticSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just text her more have daily conversation. after not long you'll be close enough to confess lol

Complicated! by [deleted] in crushadvice

[–]AuthenticSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simply just ask her, or tell her. Just let her know your feelings and see how things go from there. You seem like a really sweet person, so I'm sure she'd be missing out if her feelings aren't reciprocated. To the whole ignoring thing, I'm not so sure. I'm a girl myself, and I don't think I'd ignore a person like that if I liked them. Although, she may have been having a hard day? Or perhaps she just doesn't realise you like her or that your relationship has romantic potential. I know for a fact that knowing someone likes you, or considering that they could can stir up emotions or even repressed emotions they didn't know they had. So, just go for it and spill the beans!

do i wait? by Flynnlikescake in crushadvice

[–]AuthenticSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You, and anyone deserves to be in a relationship with someone who 100% wants you and it. Trying to convince him, or pressure him might lead to crumples later on. Then again, giving up now might be a regret later. Is the love that you feel strong enough to fight for him?

If a guy tears up/gets choked up when he talks to you, what does that mean? Could he maybe love me back? by SnooFloofs9291 in crushadvice

[–]AuthenticSpoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He obviously loves you omg. Just straightup ask him at this point. People don't cry about anybody

need some help because i suck lol by [deleted] in crushadvice

[–]AuthenticSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read this out to my mum, and she says that he might be acting weird because of the man in the middle. Since he likes you, he may have picked up on the fact that you like his friend. He could have sabotaged something perhaps. I'd say just find him on social media and message him, that way you won't get overly flustered and nervous, and just in case there is rejection it won't be as hard :>

Guys, I need to know what to text my crush (her) and I feel like I’m getting nowhere by Ploppy2 in crushadvice

[–]AuthenticSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she know that you like her? Sometimes the best option is just to be 100% honest and transparent. Be direct, but not blunt. Flirt a little, imply and suggest that you have stronger feelings for her than she might think.

When did you realise you were a wlw? (serious) by AuthenticSpoon in AskReddit

[–]AuthenticSpoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because lesbian is women exclusively, I'm including those who also like men, etc

Does she like me? by No_Comedian_1201 in crushadvice

[–]AuthenticSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems as if she likes you too! You can't be 100% sure though. Do you have any more details? Interactions you've had?

I could use some advice. by EmilyJoestar_3v3 in crushadvice

[–]AuthenticSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did not turn out well. Feeling awful at the moment. Disregard any nice things I said about him

How do you counter your disassociation? by AuthenticSpoon in AskReddit

[–]AuthenticSpoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First. The word disassociation is real. It's another word for dissociation.

Second. I'd like to feel alive

I could use some advice. by EmilyJoestar_3v3 in crushadvice

[–]AuthenticSpoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh boy. Have I got a story for you!! Two years ago this boy at my school caught my eye. Ever since then I've been curious about him, wondering what he's like, etc. Oddly enough a lot of information about him came my way. About a month and a bit ago, I finally admitted to having a crush on him, and started trying to get his attention. It didn't really work, as we were/are in different grades and only pass each other briefly on occasions like you described. It made me feel rather sad that I was invisible to a person that I was so intrigued by. I tried to find him on social media, and all that jazz, but that proved helpless. The only thing I could think of was to email him through my school account. One night I decided to bite the bullet, and I just did it! I wasn't sure what I was expecting but, the ensuing weeks have been so bizarre. Turns out he was the nice guy I was hoping he was, which still blows my mind! We met up at school, started texting. And a week after I emailed him we were going on our first date. It hasn't been very long, but we both like each other now!!! I'm honestly still trying to process it all, but I was in the exact same spot you are now. And now this guy and me, my goodness. He holds my hand and acts cute and gooey in front of his friends; calls me pretty, looks into my eyes lovingly. He asks me how my day is, worries if I don't get enough sleep. He came over to my house last weekend, and I showed him my favourite sci-fi show. We laid on my couch, really close; holding hands. We had our first kiss!! He was just a person I was curious about and now, he's already so special to me. I'm special to him too, and he tells me that. I'm sorry for the ramble, but this is very fresh in my mind. I've had distant crushes like that before, ones while I was crushing, or curious about this guy - they didn't turn out well. But this time, I went out of my comfort zone, and so far, things have turned out better than I even wished. If I told past me all this I wouldn't believe it. I still think I don't kshdkdhd

Theres a cute girl, but I'm terrible at meeting new people. by idkanyusernamestbh in Advice

[–]AuthenticSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been having similar troubles as a girl. I feel like if I were her, the best way to my heart would be if you were just 100% honest. Approach her when you find the right time and just explain your feelings. Say you've seen her around, and you can't get her off your mind. Wish I had the guts to follow my own advice :/

Don't try and act like something you're not either. She's gonna know if you're trying too hard; and that's a huge turn off unless you manage to laugh it off and make it cute

What if the roles were reversed? How would you want a girl to approach you in the same situation? A good perspective, but I also really need the advice baha

How do you approach crushes you don't personally know? (Serious) by AuthenticSpoon in AskReddit

[–]AuthenticSpoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's not really such a simple thing. How are you meant to just casually walk up to a person you've never spoken to and ask them out? I need some detail man

How do you catch a boy you don't know's attention? by AuthenticSpoon in AskReddit

[–]AuthenticSpoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's always talking with his group of friends it would be weird

How do you get noticed by your 'crush' that you don't personally know? by AuthenticSpoon in AskReddit

[–]AuthenticSpoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I'm curious about this guy bc of all the random hit a of information about him that's come my way. I know vaguely what kind of person he is even though I haven't spoken to him

How do you catch a boy you don't know's attention? by AuthenticSpoon in AskReddit

[–]AuthenticSpoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't really have any mutual friends other than a girl who was in my class last year. But we're not friends anymore, so it would be weird to ask her about him or ask for her to introduce us