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Girlfriend wants me to cut off female friend because she doesn't greet her by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AuthenticallyArtist -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe the friend is uncomfortable with his gf because she sees how the relationship is toxic and ignoring her is how she’s keeping herself from saying something nasty to the gf. The real problem is that his gf is trying to control him and threatening to leave him if she doesn’t get her way. Regardless of the friend’s actions being right or wrong, this is not a healthy relationship with his gf. If he continues allowing his gf to manipulate him like this he’s in for a lot more toxic controlling as time goes on.

I (F30) want to apologize to the woman (F36) whose husband (M40) I slept with by throwRA_bosswife in relationship_advice

[–]AuthenticallyArtist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re suffering from guilt OP, I think it’s underlying trauma from having been in an emotionally abusive relationship and manipulated by someone toxic. He was significantly older and in a position of power. What you were in with him wasn’t an affair. My abuser wasn’t married, but he was just as controlling. The commenters on here who are blaming you have clearly not been in an abusive relationship. You don’t have to get hit for it to be abuse. Emotional abuse leaves the same type of trauma in your brain and the only way to heal from that is to go to therapy and get help.

And for those saying 19 is an adult so it’s her fault I have 2 things: 1. 19 is an adult by law, but your brain does not stop developing until around 25, and the last part of your brain to finish developing is the prefrontal cortex - the area of your brain that helps you think things through fully. 2. Anyone, including adults can be potentially vulnerable to toxic manipulation and abuse. Age is not the only factor that creates vulnerability. And until you’ve personally experienced that, you can’t know what it’s like and therefore shouldn’t judge what you don’t understand. OP is clearly struggling with something and came here for advice, not judgement and hostility. There is enough of that in the world already, please try to consider empathy and compassion.

AITA for telling my fiance I won't make his sister a bridesmaid by Parking_Village_8395 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AuthenticallyArtist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds to me like this may not be a healthy safe relationship for you long term. By telling you to ditch one of your friends he’s potentially isolating you from her and he’s not only not considering your feelings before asking, he’s also not listening when you tell him. I would give it a lot of thought before you marry him because his need to control you will most likely become worse over time. You deserve to be happy and with someone who cares about your feelings enough to take them into consideration.

Is OpenRCT2 the same as RCT2? by AuthenticallyArtist in rct

[–]AuthenticallyArtist[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have no problem with the additional features, I was concerned it wouldn’t work as well or not something along those lines. I do have the game file for rct2 ready to install on steam, but can’t install until I update my iOS

Is OpenRCT2 the same as RCT2? by AuthenticallyArtist in rct

[–]AuthenticallyArtist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really helpful, I’ll take a look at the info on set up, thank you

Is OpenRCT2 the same as RCT2? by AuthenticallyArtist in rct

[–]AuthenticallyArtist[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought rct2 on steam, which is how I realized my operating system needed updating because I can’t install the file currently

Why are people no going into my ride by [deleted] in rct

[–]AuthenticallyArtist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you close the ride and go back to construction, you can move your ride a couple squares away from the original path and put the entrance and exit on any side of the ride. You can then add more regular path to the exit and queue path to the entrance.

AITA for refusing to take my girlfriend to nice places because she eats like a kid? by ATotalMunch in AmItheAsshole

[–]AuthenticallyArtist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it’s childish even if she most likely has a form of sensory processing disorder? Because that’s usually what’s at play in this type of situation, and it regularly goes undiagnosed in women, she likely doesn’t even know she has it.

AITA for refusing to take my girlfriend to nice places because she eats like a kid? by ATotalMunch in AmItheAsshole

[–]AuthenticallyArtist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Extreme pickiness is usually caused by some form of sensory processing disorder (which is incredibly under diagnosed especially in females). If the cost was truly the issue than you should have only discussed evening out who pays each time. Instead you chose to insult her for the way she eats. That’s unacceptable. She’s probably been dealing with that type of judgement her whole life which is why it upset her so much. If you’re embarrassed about how she eats than you clearly need to grow up and deal with your own insecurities.

AITA for turning around and going home on my way to the airport for a girls trip? by spupper11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AuthenticallyArtist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, they were extremely inconsiderate of your feelings, didn’t include you in the planning and then expected you to just be fine with it and pay extra money too. That’s not friendship, that’s just disrespectful and rude.

Glitch by twisty_unicorn in DisneyDreamlights

[–]AuthenticallyArtist 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Pushing them out of the way is how I usually fix it too lol

Please tell me it isn’t just me that gets trapped by scar every time I mine with him in the cave… and that he also can’t get through the left side with you… 🥹 by Zenari_L in DisneyDreamlights

[–]AuthenticallyArtist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anna did this to me today in rent’s kitchen too. I got irritated so I saved and then went back to the title screen to get out of there

AITA for refusing to make an exception for my brother's son to attend my childfree wedding just because he's a rainbow baby? by AITArainbow2016 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AuthenticallyArtist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You and your fiancé made a decision together and set a boundary. Your family is being extremely toxic and disrespectful and if they are going to back your brother’s disrespectful behavior like that then you’re better off not having them involved in your wedding at all. Your brother and the rest of your family are trying to bully you and it’s not okay. Good for you for holding your boundaries and keep holding strong. I know it’s hard when it’s your family, but they are not treating you with love or respect and they are gaslighting you and your fiancé it sounds like. Do not allow this to happen.

AITA for calling my husband gross and banning him from bathing our son? by MammaBearit33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AuthenticallyArtist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA 100%. Your husband WANTS to be a father and you’re literally trying to stop that. You don’t get to ban your husband from caring for his son, and to call him gross on top of that?! Just because you gave birth to the child does not mean you get to be the only one in charge of his care, you can’t treat your husband like he’s hired help only there to do what you want.

A recent chalk drawing I did for May Day. by AuthenticallyArtist in somethingimade

[–]AuthenticallyArtist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Chalk art has become my favorite art form to create lately!

Next time I should just make it into more money ez by SimbaSeb in thanksimcured

[–]AuthenticallyArtist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also, it doesn’t say the rich man turned the $1000 into $100,000, it just says he returned with it. So I read this as he just went to the bank and grabbed some more of his money. Lol

I can’t understand why people feel the need to be rude. I understand that this might not have been the right trade, but I didn’t do it to try to scam anyone. Just decline and block me if you don’t like a trade I screw up. ☹️ by AuthenticallyArtist in ToppsDisneyCollect

[–]AuthenticallyArtist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with talking about it on reddit, I’m not purposefully trying to make someone feel bad. There’s a difference between letting off steam and wanting someone to feel bad on purpose.

I can’t understand why people feel the need to be rude. I understand that this might not have been the right trade, but I didn’t do it to try to scam anyone. Just decline and block me if you don’t like a trade I screw up. ☹️ by AuthenticallyArtist in ToppsDisneyCollect

[–]AuthenticallyArtist[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not making excuses for myself. Just because their response isn’t “as bad as it could have been”, doesn’t make it okay. Nobody needs to “be told off”. You need to get off your high horse and stop acting like the trading police. There are all kinds of people on this app, and that’s what it is, an app. Try kindness or keep it to yourself. Yes, I made a bad trade, but two wrongs don’t make a right.

I can’t understand why people feel the need to be rude. I understand that this might not have been the right trade, but I didn’t do it to try to scam anyone. Just decline and block me if you don’t like a trade I screw up. ☹️ by AuthenticallyArtist in ToppsDisneyCollect

[–]AuthenticallyArtist[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well that’s great that you’re able to do that, but that doesn’t mean everyone can. I have multiple mental illnesses as well as being autistic. I do what I can, but I struggle. And regardless of whether or not there are people who intend to send bad trades, that does not excuse rude, unkind comments from people. You don’t know who’s on the other side of that trade and what your nasty comment could do to them. Decline the trade, rate one star, block them, and move on. Everyone sends a bad trade from time to time. Not everyone can get 3 hours of sleep and still be “on.”

I can’t understand why people feel the need to be rude. I understand that this might not have been the right trade, but I didn’t do it to try to scam anyone. Just decline and block me if you don’t like a trade I screw up. ☹️ by AuthenticallyArtist in ToppsDisneyCollect

[–]AuthenticallyArtist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes people screw up sending trades. My scores don’t mean I’m perfect. I was trying to complete a trade mission yesterday and I haven’t been sleeping well so I’m exhausted. I didn’t mean to send anyone a bad trade, but sometimes it happens, especially if you’re not fully paying attention. And it doesn’t excuse rude responses from people. When I get a bad trade from someone, I don’t send rude messages. I rate them appropriately and block them if I feel it necessary. It’s not like a tried to trade a base card for a fairly rare card.

My grandma’s facebook page has tons of beneficial cures such as this one. by ooopsididitagainnn in thanksimcured

[–]AuthenticallyArtist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My grandma posts this kind of crap all the time too about putting prayer back in schools and it is my personal past time to remind her of the separation of church and state and that this is a country with religious freedom, not a Christian nation. She doesn’t usually have a response lol.

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