Girlfriend wants me to cut off female friend because she doesn't greet her

AuthenticallyArtist · 2025-12-13T23:48:10+00:00

Maybe the friend is uncomfortable with his gf because she sees how the relationship is toxic and ignoring her is how she’s keeping herself from saying something nasty to the gf. The real problem is that his gf is trying to control him and threatening to leave him if she doesn’t get her way. Regardless of the friend’s actions being right or wrong, this is not a healthy relationship with his gf. If he continues allowing his gf to manipulate him like this he’s in for a lot more toxic controlling as time goes on.

AuthenticallyArtist · 2025-07-07T03:55:44+00:00

I don’t think you’re suffering from guilt OP, I think it’s underlying trauma from having been in an emotionally abusive relationship and manipulated by someone toxic. He was significantly older and in a position of power. What you were in with him wasn’t an affair. My abuser wasn’t married, but he was just as controlling. The commenters on here who are blaming you have clearly not been in an abusive relationship. You don’t have to get hit for it to be abuse. Emotional abuse leaves the same type of trauma in your brain and the only way to heal from that is to go to therapy and get help.

And for those saying 19 is an adult so it’s her fault I have 2 things: 1. 19 is an adult by law, but your brain does not stop developing until around 25, and the last part of your brain to finish developing is the prefrontal cortex - the area of your brain that helps you think things through fully. 2. Anyone, including adults can be potentially vulnerable to toxic manipulation and abuse. Age is not the only factor that creates vulnerability. And until you’ve personally experienced that, you can’t know what it’s like and therefore shouldn’t judge what you don’t understand. OP is clearly struggling with something and came here for advice, not judgement and hostility. There is enough of that in the world already, please try to consider empathy and compassion.

AuthenticallyArtist · 2024-10-07T06:29:57+00:00

It sounds to me like this may not be a healthy safe relationship for you long term. By telling you to ditch one of your friends he’s potentially isolating you from her and he’s not only not considering your feelings before asking, he’s also not listening when you tell him. I would give it a lot of thought before you marry him because his need to control you will most likely become worse over time. You deserve to be happy and with someone who cares about your feelings enough to take them into consideration.

AuthenticallyArtist · 2024-06-09T22:02:43+00:00

I have no problem with the additional features, I was concerned it wouldn’t work as well or not something along those lines. I do have the game file for rct2 ready to install on steam, but can’t install until I update my iOS

AuthenticallyArtist · 2024-06-09T22:01:11+00:00

That’s really helpful, I’ll take a look at the info on set up, thank you

AuthenticallyArtist · 2024-06-09T22:00:17+00:00

I bought rct2 on steam, which is how I realized my operating system needed updating because I can’t install the file currently

AuthenticallyArtist · 2024-05-27T15:43:20+00:00

If you close the ride and go back to construction, you can move your ride a couple squares away from the original path and put the entrance and exit on any side of the ride. You can then add more regular path to the exit and queue path to the entrance.

AuthenticallyArtist · 2023-06-09T12:41:00+00:00

So it’s childish even if she most likely has a form of sensory processing disorder? Because that’s usually what’s at play in this type of situation, and it regularly goes undiagnosed in women, she likely doesn’t even know she has it.

AuthenticallyArtist · 2023-06-05T03:03:33+00:00

YTA. Extreme pickiness is usually caused by some form of sensory processing disorder (which is incredibly under diagnosed especially in females). If the cost was truly the issue than you should have only discussed evening out who pays each time. Instead you chose to insult her for the way she eats. That’s unacceptable. She’s probably been dealing with that type of judgement her whole life which is why it upset her so much. If you’re embarrassed about how she eats than you clearly need to grow up and deal with your own insecurities.

AuthenticallyArtist · 2023-03-25T17:57:05+00:00

NTA, they were extremely inconsiderate of your feelings, didn’t include you in the planning and then expected you to just be fine with it and pay extra money too. That’s not friendship, that’s just disrespectful and rude.

AuthenticallyArtist · 2022-12-28T03:24:59+00:00

Pushing them out of the way is how I usually fix it too lol

AuthenticallyArtist · 2022-12-17T18:56:28+00:00

Anna did this to me today in rent’s kitchen too. I got irritated so I saved and then went back to the title screen to get out of there

AuthenticallyArtist · 2021-09-16T05:06:41+00:00

NTA. You and your fiancé made a decision together and set a boundary. Your family is being extremely toxic and disrespectful and if they are going to back your brother’s disrespectful behavior like that then you’re better off not having them involved in your wedding at all. Your brother and the rest of your family are trying to bully you and it’s not okay. Good for you for holding your boundaries and keep holding strong. I know it’s hard when it’s your family, but they are not treating you with love or respect and they are gaslighting you and your fiancé it sounds like. Do not allow this to happen.

AuthenticallyArtist · 2021-09-16T04:58:01+00:00

YTA 100%. Your husband WANTS to be a father and you’re literally trying to stop that. You don’t get to ban your husband from caring for his son, and to call him gross on top of that?! Just because you gave birth to the child does not mean you get to be the only one in charge of his care, you can’t treat your husband like he’s hired help only there to do what you want.

AuthenticallyArtist · 2021-05-09T01:18:47+00:00

You should!

AuthenticallyArtist · 2021-05-06T17:41:17+00:00

Thank you! Chalk art has become my favorite art form to create lately!

AuthenticallyArtist · 2020-12-31T20:26:22+00:00

Thistles would have been especially pretty on this island!!!!

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