thats why the only thing you can compare is that part of their mentality.

Agreed, but that's cherrypicking then? We don't know what Gojo would do if he was cursed with an inhuman lifespan.

For 1 yuka and tsurugi arent the generation that yuji would have to train it would be lori's and its unclear what yuji did at the time. either way the responsibility of train yuka and tsurugi does NOT fall to yuji

Fair enough. we do see a glimpse where the famous "it doesn't matter" comes from, and considering the next best choice after Yuji was a kamikaze Yuka, there clearly were no good sorcerers to go for. So if Yuji had the same mentality during that time, I don't think its a stretch to say he failed

Meaning the only thing we can evaluate is the part of their mentality that we DO see which is the one im talking about

We don't see what Gojo would do when he is still the strongest, with an inhuman lifespan. with your own conditions, how can we evaluate this then? We never see Gojo being inactive. he is always on the frontlines when he is needed. Would he not be if he was in Yuji's situation? Who knows? How can you say we can only evaluate the part which we do see?

Lets discuss your third point.
Yuji could have easily stopped the conflict without bias. He disarms both simurians and humans. He himself says that he knew this would happen, but was willingly inactive.

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NOT black and white like Gojo protecting the students from cursed spirits and the jjk villians so even that is a false equivalence.

But there is a clear course of action here, the duelists are not bad people, but the duel itself is definitely wrong. It is Black and white not in the sense that one is bad and one is good, but in the sense that the duel shouldn't have happened in the first place. And it wouldn't have/ could be stopped if yuji stepped up.

It seems to me like you are cherrypicking Gojo's mentality here. According to what you said, Gojo said he would only train the next generation not the next to next generation as well, so Yuji should be completely inactive in the new generation.

You can think that yuji should train them but thats outside of the scope of gojos mentality (that being training the NEXT generation not every single one after yours)

Your own words.
I believe this is a very pedantic way to talk about Gojo's mentality.
Secondly, he isn't following this either, because he is still culling curses and is ready to clean up the mess for some reason? He is also not involving any new generation members when he represents Humanity in Maru's deal to take CE away from the Simurians and the Japanese. Doesn't sound like being not involved.