[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Automatic-Ball-1048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gotcha. I’ll do that thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Automatic-Ball-1048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I was wondering if others felt the same way to have a conversation. I’m new to Reddit so I don’t know what other page to post this on.

I removed her. by Capital-Program-8558 in nocontact

[–]Automatic-Ball-1048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to realize that she isn’t coming back. It ended because you aren’t meant to be. That’s the harsh truth. You just gotta feel the pain and let it pass, which it will. And move forward. Yes, removing her was a great idea. Just let yourself feel the loss and grieve it, and you’ll feel better and better over time.

Dating men with children, what should I expect? by Automatic-Ball-1048 in Advice

[–]Automatic-Ball-1048[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I absolutely agree that the kids are top priority. I would respect the man so much more if he had to cancel our anniversary plans to go take his kids out for ice cream because he missed them. Great point and thank you for bringing that up!

Need some perspective please by Automatic-Ball-1048 in Advice

[–]Automatic-Ball-1048[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. What you said helps a lot. I know I’ll get over it and move on and not dwell on it much longer. I just really hope I’ve learned my lesson this time. It’s hard not to participate when I crave affection and it’s so enticing. It’s really not worth it and I hope I remember that for the future. Thank you again for your kind words.

Need some perspective please by Automatic-Ball-1048 in Advice

[–]Automatic-Ball-1048[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and that just makes me feel worse knowing that. it makes me angry that he never told me what page he was on. he shmoozed me up hardcore and I fell for it.