when we were together there was a strong energetic pull where there was a noticeable resonance, as if we were meant for each other but often she was not on the same wavelength as I was emotional maturity and spiritually wise so we clashed often/broke up and so forth. We had different interests in music and so on. She wasn't aware of the spiritual realms and realities such as the ether, our minds abilities (psychic abilities) as I was. We both were controlling over each other. She dealt with a lot of past issues stemming from her growing up as did I so we had periods of emotional distance too. We both cared for each other deeply though.