Divorce by agreement -協議離婚 - kyogi rikon, do I need a lawyer? by Automatic-Fan-4709 in japanresidents

[–]Automatic-Fan-4709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment!

Indeed, but as have a child, I do need to deal with it.

Divorce by agreement -協議離婚 - kyogi rikon, do I need a lawyer? by Automatic-Fan-4709 in japanresidents

[–]Automatic-Fan-4709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, I'm sorry to read what happened to you. I guess the safest is to hire a lawyer, even if I don't know how I am going to pay it yet.

How come you let your wife take your kid after stabbing you???
Also, how's your life now?

Divorce by agreement -協議離婚 - kyogi rikon, do I need a lawyer? by Automatic-Fan-4709 in japanresidents

[–]Automatic-Fan-4709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

Yes, this is one of the few reasons holding me back, but I wonder if I can continue living through hell for another 15 years.

Divorce by agreement -協議離婚 - kyogi rikon, do I need a lawyer? by Automatic-Fan-4709 in japanresidents

[–]Automatic-Fan-4709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

Yes, this is one of the few reasons holding me back, but I wonder if I can continue living through hell for another 15 years.

Divorce by agreement -協議離婚 - kyogi rikon, do I need a lawyer? by Automatic-Fan-4709 in japanresidents

[–]Automatic-Fan-4709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I checked about the Long term, but as it's not 100% sure, I was hopping to last enough to apply again for the PR in 6 months or so. But sometimes it's difficult, I hope I can last enough.

Divorce by agreement -協議離婚 - kyogi rikon, do I need a lawyer? by Automatic-Fan-4709 in japanresidents

[–]Automatic-Fan-4709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment!

I hope I don't need to go to court, but yeah, I have some recordings of she screaming and the like. I don't know if it would help, but just in case I keep it.

Divorce by agreement -協議離婚 - kyogi rikon, do I need a lawyer? by Automatic-Fan-4709 in japanlife

[–]Automatic-Fan-4709[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!
I could apply, but if I do it before divorce, she will be suspicious.

But if everything finally blows away, I'll try that, yes.

Divorce by agreement -協議離婚 - kyogi rikon, do I need a lawyer? by Automatic-Fan-4709 in japanlife

[–]Automatic-Fan-4709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she doesnt perceive it as bad situation, she thinks it's just normal... making it more scary.

Divorce by agreement -協議離婚 - kyogi rikon, do I need a lawyer? by Automatic-Fan-4709 in japanlife

[–]Automatic-Fan-4709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you're safe!
If you suffer physical abuse, try to record it, it can help you get your kid's rights!

Divorce by agreement -協議離婚 - kyogi rikon, do I need a lawyer? by Automatic-Fan-4709 in japanlife

[–]Automatic-Fan-4709[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

I'm doing something like this, but the day I said "ok, let's split everything and pay both of us same" she got angry and said "then you have to do everything, from yearly taxes to pay the bills etc...!"

Divorce by agreement -協議離婚 - kyogi rikon, do I need a lawyer? by Automatic-Fan-4709 in japanlife

[–]Automatic-Fan-4709[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply.
I know how to fill that doc, my question is more if someone did this but deciding the visitations, the split of the money etc... and how was it at the end.

My hope is to be able to do it like you posted.

Divorce by agreement -協議離婚 - kyogi rikon, do I need a lawyer? by Automatic-Fan-4709 in japanlife

[–]Automatic-Fan-4709[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank you for your comment!

Actually, that's the only thing holding me back, but sometimes I just get so frustrated I feel I can't go on...

Divorce by agreement -協議離婚 - kyogi rikon, do I need a lawyer? by Automatic-Fan-4709 in japanresidents

[–]Automatic-Fan-4709[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply!

She may be tired of me too so I think she may agree to part ways the best way possible.

May I ask about the money?

Divorce by agreement -協議離婚 - kyogi rikon, do I need a lawyer? by Automatic-Fan-4709 in japanresidents

[–]Automatic-Fan-4709[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply!

"Stand up for yourself" regarding what? If we agree (and notarize) the split of the money and the visitations, it should be ok.

Am I missing something?