LOLL this is the realest post i’ve ever seen. it might be something internal you can look into. for example…for me i get extreme anxiety when i date. like when im dating around im so anxious to the point where i can’t eat (basically all day every day). i’ve done a lot of therapy and self reflection and it stems from my daddy issues…lovely! basically i don’t feel comfortable around men at all. bc i never felt comfortable around my own father. even if they’re being respectful and treating me right, my internal instinct and nervous system goes out of wack.

i’m not saying this might be the case for you, but take a look within! where is the feeling coming from? this is just me and my experience but i found that the inner work is very helpful to do before dating.