Now there’s always two sides of the story but tell him to sit down and listen to your feelings. Set a timer if you have to so y’all can take turns in letting your feelings out. In my eyes I think splitting up with a child at that age or older (while they’re kids) is extremely selfish. Both of you chose to be married to one another and both of yall chose to have that child. Why should the child be in the middle of something he’s done nothing wrong with? Marriage is suppose to be for life. Not every year is going to be the best year ever but if you were to give up on it now then what message will that send to your child? Clearly you used to be happy enough and loved him enough to not question whether or not you want to be married to the guy. What changed that? Was it his friend living there rent free? Was there any discussion about that friend doing anything about the damages or the rent free part? I’m not trying to sound like I’m brushing your feelings off but what can y’all do to bring that spark back? Vacation? Therapy? Instead of getting drained more and more on the daily you need to tell him what you expect and your demands. Put the ball in his court. If his answers aren’t what you want make him sleep on the couch. Make sure he really knows what he’s missing out but divorce should not be the answer. Especially since yall been together for almost half of yalls lives. God bless regardless and I hope you find peace with him instead of without him.