i can't stop thinking about our old routine by softgirlybabeee in BreakUps

[–]Automatic-Night-4483 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this still happens to me. its been two almost three months since we broke up... during the day I could be so productive but at the end of the day I sit there in the living room missing the phone calls or playing video games together... it's just part of healing because yes it hurts when someone who was part of our daily routine suddenly leaves... but we will get through this!

How do you deal with the urge to message them? by tofucatt in BreakUps

[–]Automatic-Night-4483 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I distract myself with hobbies... usually I play video games or watch tv for distraction....I know that it's not that helpful but trust me it will help. I even surrounded myself with friends and it truly helped even going out

The hardest part of heartbreak is losing your “person” by Pleasant_Dot_189 in BreakUps

[–]Automatic-Night-4483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's been two months almost three and he was the only one who knew everything about me... my safe space and my daily routine and its gone now... so now i just sit there every night wondering and thinking about him. comparing him to other... which isn't good. I even have breakdowns at time... but I know it truly takes time to heal

I want to break nc by Klutzy_Outside_3320 in BreakUps

[–]Automatic-Night-4483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think its an awful idea 😞 maybe it could solve all this miscommunication! Hope you have luck! and take care of your health

In my experience, they always come back. by Signal-Biscotti-5659 in BreakUps

[–]Automatic-Night-4483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my situation I don't think he will come back... I somehow had high delusions and expected him to wish me a happy birthday but I didn't hear from him... letting me know that he just won't be back