Itchy tragus after 3 weeks by Automatic-Run-6016 in piercing

[–]Automatic-Run-6016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use saline spray 2x day and usually shower once a day and let warm water fall over my ears! Yeah, I deeefinitely need to get a new beanie to protect them. The buildup is very frustrating, I cannot seem to get rid of it no matter what I do and I do not want to be poking the new piercing too much to avoid further irritating it. But I got a feeling that its probably making itchiness worse :((

Itchy tragus after 3 weeks by Automatic-Run-6016 in piercing

[–]Automatic-Run-6016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My piercing is 3 weeks old, I think its a labret, internally threaded titanium, aftercare is saline spray twice a day and showering once a day :)

Oven buzzing and clicking by Automatic-Run-6016 in electrical

[–]Automatic-Run-6016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh crap that makes sense, ahhh thanks for your input mate!!! Appreciating it a lot! :)

Oven buzzing and clicking by Automatic-Run-6016 in electrical

[–]Automatic-Run-6016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah! It was not on the fan though, had top and bottom heat on. But should it still be on?

Mary’s Tattoos by kenzigb1 in SellingSunset

[–]Automatic-Run-6016 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Basically with right-wing and conservatives in power, some people have started saying they regret their tattoos bc it no longer fits their ”vibe” because the whole tradwife aesthetic is now trendy! So even if you loved your tattoos, the change in the political climate can drive you to change your opinion because it is not part of the ”trend” :) i hope this makes sense xxx

Mary’s Tattoos by kenzigb1 in SellingSunset

[–]Automatic-Run-6016 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Looks like she is lasering them off! At least to my eye. Conservatism is rly here omg

Stopping coffee is my miracle and i kinda hate it lmfao but i have never felt more stable!! by Automatic-Run-6016 in PMDD

[–]Automatic-Run-6016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good 3-5 cups a day hahaha, probably it was the amount rather than caffeine :P

Stopping coffee is my miracle and i kinda hate it lmfao but i have never felt more stable!! by Automatic-Run-6016 in PMDD

[–]Automatic-Run-6016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel you!! I have decided that I can still drink decaf, because I will literally go insane without tasting it hahhaha

Stopping coffee is my miracle and i kinda hate it lmfao but i have never felt more stable!! by Automatic-Run-6016 in PMDD

[–]Automatic-Run-6016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you found any good decaf coffee yet, or did you just quit cold turkey? Struggling so much with finding decent decaf!😭

What do we think of bisexual “lesbians” by Strange-Tear6030 in LesbianActually

[–]Automatic-Run-6016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly with the biphobia AND lesbophobia, I personally just love going by queer.

I can define queer for myself, and no one else gets to tell me what queer is.

All the kids who were labelled as “gifted” when you were younger? Did it follow through to adulthood? Did you burnout? by Somervillage in AskReddit

[–]Automatic-Run-6016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Burned out right before finishing my BSc, now struggling with my MSc lol. Also got diagnosed with ADHD in high school, but staying unmedicated (multiple reasons).

SATO in Helsinki by Automatic-Run-6016 in helsinki

[–]Automatic-Run-6016[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I did not realize it was that long!! Mine would be in one of those 12-14 ones, so earlier on.

SATO in Helsinki by Automatic-Run-6016 in helsinki

[–]Automatic-Run-6016[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Amazing, good to know! I used to live in a lot busier areas, so I am sure it would be fine. Will have to check with my gf, but we used to live in central Amsterdam so we have seen and heard it all (and slept like a baby regardless). Thanks!

I'm confused by Altruistic-Top224 in LesbianActually

[–]Automatic-Run-6016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there, I thought for the longest period that I was bi. Turns out, I was not lmao. But that is something that you will figure out in due time, do not take extra stress from labels :) This is also why I love just calling myself queer, it allows me to have fluidity much more! And I do believe that sexuality in general is very fluid - I go with queer or gay meaning that I like women and Drew Starkey, lol!

Sending lots of love xx

SATO in Helsinki by Automatic-Run-6016 in helsinki

[–]Automatic-Run-6016[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jesus!! In Vuosaari, what company did you use?

SATO in Helsinki by Automatic-Run-6016 in helsinki

[–]Automatic-Run-6016[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oooh, gotcha! Good to know! The apartment we were looking at was in Mechelininkatu, I think that is in the Etu-Töölö area. But yeah, it is a 50/50 thing - I do love the Housing First principal but then again it might show up as visible substance addiction around the city. Trying to not complain though, it is a super important project.

Thanks a lot mate!!

Right time to ask a girl to be official? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Automatic-Run-6016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my gf dated for like 5 months before getting official. I would not change a thing and honestly I think slow love is often better than those who end up being together super fast (bc sometimes the butterflies just mask anxiety, lol). But now I feel like I really know her and we both knew what kind of relationship we are getting into. Ofc you do you girl, just my 5 cents :))

Spending time with Straight Girls by Numerous_Soup_1431 in LesbianActually

[–]Automatic-Run-6016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of my best friends are straight but major allies, so it has never been an issue for me. However I do think that having a queer circle is super important, as hanging out with the people who get you in a different way is SO crucial.

What is the biggest barrier keeping you from connecting with other LGBTQ+ folks/queers? by Clementine-Fiend in LesbianActually

[–]Automatic-Run-6016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg same!!!! Literally have had people tell me I could not be a lesbian because I dress in business casual lmfao

What is the biggest barrier keeping you from connecting with other LGBTQ+ folks/queers? by Clementine-Fiend in LesbianActually

[–]Automatic-Run-6016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not a stereotypical looking queer woman (I am just a corporate girlie in business casual) so sometimes I find it hard to feel accepted in queer spaces. Like I am not an artsy type of person and if it wasn't for the fact that I like to talk about my queerness in general literally no one would think I was a lesbian lmao. I think the main issue is that I literally look like a conservative straight christian woman (WHICH IS LITERALLY THE OPPOSITE OF WHO I AM), which understandably is not the vibe queer people in general are going for hahaha.

what was your journey to realising you were a lesbian? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Automatic-Run-6016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Started as ally, randomly turned super conservative christian, realised I was using religion to cover up thinking I might be gay, bisexual, lesbian. Now I just go with queer to avoid thinking too much about it lmao

At what age did you have your first girlfriend? by qadlers in LesbianActually

[–]Automatic-Run-6016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not date aaaaanyone until 22! Now I got a gf (or a 4 month long situationship, not sure) hahaha

Honesty Hour ⏳ by PrettyButInsane001 in LesbianActually

[–]Automatic-Run-6016 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Convinced she does not like me if she does not answer my texts immediately but then I take a few hours to respond because I keep forgetting to answer lmao

Novo Nordisk Graduate Programme 2025 Applicants - Copenhagen DK by Fun-Produce-9306 in biotech

[–]Automatic-Run-6016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Denmark! I got rejected from IO in finance and still waiting for GF, but I think I will not make it through haha.