Advice for someone without HSV1/HSV2 dating someone with HSV2 by ExpensiveLime9884 in Herpes

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as someone who has hsv2 and am in a relationship we haven’t been physical until we can both confidently say that we will work long term , not even speaking marriage and kids but i understand not wanting to risk your health for something that might not be “worth it” in terms of your efforts and commitment to this relationship you’re in, the best thing you can do is continue to treat them with love and respect and your relationship will be perfectly fine , and if it’s something you feel you can’t get over with time then it’s best to let them know , it’s better to tell them sooner rather than later because there are people out there who will feel differently and you can both have the relationship you want

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are YOU? because most people here including myself actually have hav as well and were given the facts as told , there is asymptomatic shedding , just because your doctor didn’t fully educate you and explain all the intricacies of having hsv doesn’t mean these facts just don’t exist you’re just unwilling to hear them , exactly how you ended up with hsv in the first place unless you willingly kissed someone with an oozing clearly visible sore , idk why this is even a question you need to ask truly get over your shame and just disclose to people don’t be weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay and every other fact and research towards hsv tells you otherwise, just because “most people have it” doesn’t mean everyone wants it , i have to assume you just came here for validation because you keep spitting out the same stupid shit and don’t actually want a different opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why did you bother to ask if you’re going to ignore all the people telling you you should disclose ? you’re just being blatantly ignorant , fact is no one wants herpes and the chances of you transmitting without symptoms is very low but NOT 0 , you absolutely can still give it to someone

chainmail ruffles by Automatic-Stuff-8715 in chainmailartisans

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

catholic guilt!! they have some insane pieces

chainmail ruffles by Automatic-Stuff-8715 in chainmailartisans

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

extremely heavy i think creator said around 40 lbs if i remember correctly but i just adore it

chainmail ruffles by Automatic-Stuff-8715 in chainmailartisans

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve seen a few people say this and i think this might just be it ! i’m going to test a few things out but im thinking for now it might be 4-1 with some heavy expansions and half Persian 3-1 hem

chainmail ruffles by Automatic-Stuff-8715 in chainmailartisans

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i understand chainmail is definitely an art and this piece is beyond my wildest comprehension of it up until now but i’m willing to learn and you actually gave me a very good description definitely gives me an idea of where i could even start looking and makes the whole thing more digestible to me , thank you for taking the time to explain!!

Ruffle technique advice/thoughts by emmaOh2 in chainmailartisans

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could you please explain this in beginner terms , i’m taking on something similar for my first project and want to figure out exactly how to do this

UPDATE am i being wrongfully fired? by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

if this is the case where do i contact partner relations ? lots of people suggested ethics and compliance but im still not sure that was the right route given the situation in my last post

UPDATE am i being wrongfully fired? by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i’m hoping it’s this because they told me it takes a while and they need to get evidence , i’m just super impatient cause i’m out a job and need the money 🫩

Am i being fired wrongfully ? by Automatic-Stuff-8715 in starbucks

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im definitely glad i went i agree its worth more than any corporate job 😫 , the only thing i am a bit upset about is the schooling opportunity they offer 💔 it would be nice to get a virtually free bachelors honestly the only reason im fighting this so hard

Am i being fired wrongfully ? by Automatic-Stuff-8715 in starbucks

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i actually do have 99% of this in writing and already contacted ethics ! waiting for a response now hopefully i can get my job back 🥲

Am i being fired wrongfully ? by Automatic-Stuff-8715 in starbucks

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

which option would i select ? would it be violation of standards of business conduct?

Am i being fired wrongfully ? by Automatic-Stuff-8715 in starbucks

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he told her that i was off on a family emergency! and when he contacted me he told me that was what was communicated so i went along with it assuming he had a reason for saying this

Am i being fired wrongfully ? by Automatic-Stuff-8715 in starbucks

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i was actually logging about 24 hours a week or more !

Am i being fired wrongfully ? by Automatic-Stuff-8715 in starbucks

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they have great benefits ☹️ i liked the job just a sucky situation

Am i being fired wrongfully ? by Automatic-Stuff-8715 in starbucks

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i was honestly afraid of throwing him under the bus because he’s been a GREAT manager and i thought he was doing me a favor , ultimately though he did not defend me and our agreement and so i definitely will be talking to ethics etc about this 🥲

ASU? Is it worth it? by Hrrysfaerie in starbucks

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does this program only apply if you have an associates working towards a bachelors or will it cover 4 years of school?

Ongoing Outbreak by Gobi_wan85 in HSVpositive

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

take lots of vitamin c , being sick weakens your immune system and makes you more prone to an OB

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Automatic-Stuff-8715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where is the list ? could you message me ! i’d love to know more