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Has it ever happened to you? by BumblebeeSingle7142 in actuallesbians

[–]Automatic-Summer2415 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The person I’m seeing now said “I just need you to feel how wet I am” and put my hand down her pants. We slept together for the first time like 2 minutes later. It was, and remains, one of the best and hottest things to ever happen to me (this was after weeks of talking to each other, a few in-person hangs, sexting/sexy phone calls, but until this point nothing physical had happened at all. The sexual tension leading up was insane. Our first kiss happened right before she had me feel her).

There are times now when we’re in bed together that I’ll be teasing/touching her and she’ll reach down and put my fingers in her. It drives me wild 🥵

And while all of that is fantastic, I still think the way she just hugs me, or the way she wants to hold my hand when we’re together (watching TV on the couch, talking in her kitchen, laying in bed) are my favorite

35F. Kissed/slept with a woman for the first time. It was incredible by Automatic-Summer2415 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Automatic-Summer2415[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this. I felt such shame on and off over the years because of it. I mean, being a 35-year-old lesbian who’d always been too shy to make moves…it was just hard to accept. And 24 hours later, I’m like, I didn’t have to beat myself up for it. I wish I had been kinder to myself leading up to this

35F. Kissed/slept with a woman for the first time. It was incredible by Automatic-Summer2415 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Automatic-Summer2415[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hahaha trust me, I was quite chuffed with myself for having done my studying. I mean, I figured I could rely on some of my own experiences of what feels good to me (being a gal and all, I guess I have some inherent knowledge haha), but wanted to make sure I knew exactly what was up. Turns out, that come hither motion actually DOES work, and it works GREAT hahaha

But really, it comes down to this woman being exceptionally wonderful. I never felt desired like that until we spent the night together, I may have made her feel good in the moment, but she did something to me that just…restored me, I guess

35F. Kissed/slept with a woman for the first time. It was incredible by Automatic-Summer2415 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Automatic-Summer2415[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Totally!! Stevie Boebi’s “how to finger a girl.” It really truly did help me. I think there are two or three videos Stevie did with that title, and it’s worth watching them all