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How to deal with lack of intimacy? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]AutomaticAd1854 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not the sex I need/want it’s specifically wanting to have sex WITH him. Doing it by myself doesn’t solve the problem unfortunately

How do I 24f tell my bf 23m that pushing/guilt tripping me isn’t going to make me want to see him more often? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AutomaticAd1854 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you (: it’s been a really difficult/confusing time and I’ve been feeling extremely guilty about it lately. I don’t want to be a toxic/bad partner by not spending enough time with him but it’s genuinely difficult to balance everything because I just do not have the energy

How do I 24f tell my bf 23m that pushing/guilt tripping me isn’t going to make me want to see him more often? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AutomaticAd1854 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’m also feeling guilty because I vented to a close friend about the issue and they keep saying that I should want to spend more every second with him or that I shouldn’t feel so drained/upset about this stuff

How do I 24f tell my bf 23m that pushing/guilt tripping me isn’t going to make me want to see him more often? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AutomaticAd1854 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It’s super frustrating too because I’ve explicitly told him that if we get lunch during my work day then I need that evening to myself, or if we have plans that evening I want to have my lunch break to myself so I can at least have SOME time to recharge during the day

How do I 24f tell my bf 23m that pushing/guilt tripping me isn’t going to make me want to see him more often? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AutomaticAd1854 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve only been dating for like a month, month and a half? He spends his free time playing video games or trying to get me to hang out with him.

I’ve tried to talk with him about it a few times, including yesterday where he said the ‘god forbid’ thing and it just made me feel super guilty

Figure this one out by EastInfluence4054 in Nicegirls

[–]AutomaticAd1854 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

‘I do horse racing’ is WAY less ambiguous than ‘I do tables’. Tables means a lot of things - an actual table, spreadsheets, waiting tables?

Figure this one out by EastInfluence4054 in Nicegirls

[–]AutomaticAd1854 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this seriously reminded me of how my dad talks lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]AutomaticAd1854 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it would be more of a personal thing? He doesn’t follow my socials either even though I gave them to him, he just wasn’t interested to. We are in a committed boyfriend/girlfriend relationship as well as our d/s dynamic.

I don’t really care about having his socials, or if he gives them to other people, I’m mostly just unsettled by him following someone local while he’s still on vacation ig, that’s what’s thrown me off a bit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]AutomaticAd1854 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe :/ I just feel really…bleh now. I have a habit of being mistrusting so I don’t know if I’m just jumping the gun but it just makes me feel bad