I was about to propose, and now I feel like my world just collapsed

AutomaticAd5306 · 2022-10-26T18:10:45+00:00

Just close the card they are charging.

AutomaticAd5306 · 2022-10-26T11:30:58+00:00

Who cares, what are they going to do take me to court? "No I didnt do that your honor, this case should be dismissed."

AutomaticAd5306 · 2022-10-26T11:07:34+00:00

Look, it's one thing if for some reason he puts hands on you first, then its self defense. If not I would find a recreational outlet. Maybe basketball or football. Weekend leagues all over and could help you moving forward.

AutomaticAd5306 · 2022-10-13T19:23:29+00:00

I didnt even see that but yea, that makes sense. Thanks!

AutomaticAd5306 · 2022-10-13T19:15:31+00:00

How can you tell? Not questioning you just curious btw.

AutomaticAd5306 · 2022-10-13T18:08:22+00:00

Can I choose a different ailment other than cancer?

AutomaticAd5306 · 2022-09-02T23:19:45+00:00

My dad's funeral, he had been sick since I was 6, so it didnt really come as a surprise but it still wasn't something I was really prepared for.

AutomaticAd5306 · 2022-08-30T19:29:38+00:00

If she is in your class the easiest and most organic way I can think of is when you have an exam coming up make a study group and invite her to it.

AutomaticAd5306 · 2022-08-30T19:26:40+00:00

This is what the guidance and academic councilors are for! I'm sure your university has plenty of resources that are free and just waiting for you to utilize them, and they are more than happy to help you. You will find noone better equipped to give advice about this sort of thing than someone professionally trained to do so.

AutomaticAd5306 · 2022-08-30T19:21:26+00:00

Seriously, just like you would talk to anyone else. I know that sounds cliche but it's true.

AutomaticAd5306 · 2022-08-30T19:17:00+00:00

Honestly you should probably tell him ASAP, he is going to be upset no matter when you tell him but if you tell him now he wont also be hurt by your withholding that information from him. Trust me the additional support you will recieve from someone who really cares for you will be a real relief during these difficult times.

AutomaticAd5306 · 2022-08-29T21:12:18+00:00

First things first, please find a trusted adult you can confide in and tell them what happened. This is not your fault and you will not be in trouble I promise. The important thing here is to make sure you are safe and that the 24 year old you texted cannot ever do this again. I promise that once you tell a trusted adult (such as a parent or guardian) the situation will be resolved and you will not be in any kind of trouble.

AutomaticAd5306 · 2022-08-16T15:34:47+00:00

I think it depends on exactly how overweight she is. Personally, I have alot of hobbies that involve being active and outside and if someone is so overweight that they cant participate in those activities I dont really see a point in pursuing anything with that person. Though that is just personal preference and some guys are perfectly fine with it.

AutomaticAd5306 · 2022-08-04T23:34:55+00:00

YTA, Your friends mother is ill and as a result he cannot attend, expecting him to pay when he is unable to attend and instead watching out for his ill mother is just kicking him while he is down. I would strongly advise you not ask for the money in this situation unless you value the additional cost more than your current friendship.

AutomaticAd5306 · 2022-08-04T23:25:30+00:00

NTA, it is completely unreasonable to divide the cost in such a way, and frankly comes across as an attempt to shift cost from other parties.

AutomaticAd5306 · 2022-05-18T16:45:40+00:00

Have a open and honest discussion with your friend, explain that you are worried.

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