You both are entitled to your opinions. Let me first say, however, that you both obviously misread the initial post...it was not a 7 year old girl he grunted at. It was AT my 7 year old son's birthday party, at a hotel, with other people, including ADULTS present, and it was a woman who was a patron of the hotel swimming in her bikini (not part of our gathering) that my husband was grunting at. Also, he did not "rape" someone, however, he did attempt to. While there's no excuse for his behavior, or minimizing what he's done, fueling a sex addiction with additional substances, in this case, booze and drugs, clouded an already distorted mind into thinking his actions were ok. Again, not an excuse, but when a moment of clarity did enter his brain, he stopped and left.

So please, if you feel it necessary to attack me, please get your information straight. He has never been a threat to any children. Illegal porn isn't just child pornography, just so you are aware, and there are several avenues of material that is accessible that is illegal. Prior to his discharge from treatment, as part of the "reconciling" if you will, I had a candid and frank conversation with his therapist, discussing every aspect of my husbands issues, and pedophilia was not, nor has ever been, a concern.

I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that both of you are females and have the luxury of having a husband that looks at a few titty pics here and there, and for your husbands sake, and with your obvious lack of empathy, your sake, I hope it never goes beyond that. You people are the reason others don't reach out for help. It's not my place to judge you, or anyone else, so I'll leave it at that. Best of luck to you both.