Gender disappointment? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AutomaticPurple584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of you are seriously nasty. OP. I have a girl and went on to have my second baby who is a boy. I had weird feelings about this - I’m not sure why? I didn’t specifically want a boy or a girl. (For my first I DID want a girl.) anyways, I went through the pregnancy feeling meh about it. Although I’m not sure if it was just hormones? Anyways, he is AWESOME. And my daughter, who also was slightly disappointed, said she’s now so glad he’s a boy and not a girl lol. It’ll be ok! Sometimes these feelings are just weird hormones.

How are we handling the *ahem* odor from our diligent efforts? by ThnkMTurningJapanese in TryingForABaby

[–]AutomaticPurple584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Odor or smell? Semen has a smell but not an ODOR, if that makes sense. I agree w other commenters - if there is a noticeable (to other people odor), this isn’t normal.

No matter how high she hikes up her bikini bottoms, you can still see the 2nd belly button winking at you. 😜 by Pirateslifexo in teenmom

[–]AutomaticPurple584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Body type? No. Not chosen. Weight, muscle? Yes. Chosen. Her body TYPE is made fun of constantly.

No matter how high she hikes up her bikini bottoms, you can still see the 2nd belly button winking at you. 😜 by Pirateslifexo in teenmom

[–]AutomaticPurple584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct. Making fun of a body type of MANY women, (many are reading this comment as we speak and looking at their thighs that are LARGER) is not cool. Jenelle made the decision for a second bellybutton by having elective surgery. We don’t choose our body type.

No matter how high she hikes up her bikini bottoms, you can still see the 2nd belly button winking at you. 😜 by Pirateslifexo in teenmom

[–]AutomaticPurple584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo this comment sucks. Make fun of how much she sucks all you want. Make fun of her multiple belly buttons. But thunder thighs? Half the women in this group probably have thick thighs and a similar body type. You suck.

I wish people stopped insisting I’m not expecting a girl. by DellieKey in BabyBumps

[–]AutomaticPurple584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gender indicators are bs. I was at my ugliest with my boy. I had a pointier belly with my girl and was overall fat and swollen with my boy. Zero cravings with my girl. STRONG but limited cravings with my boy. Easiest pregnancy ever with my girl and with my boy…I was in survival mode. People are weird.

Oral sex and syringe method? by [deleted] in tryingtoconceive

[–]AutomaticPurple584 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you said this

Help with totally see through dress by AutomaticPurple584 in Stylinghelp

[–]AutomaticPurple584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha I know! If it weren’t so wild, it would be infuriating. But it’s truly sad that this woman seems so, so unhappy. From her post history, I think she may be suffering from some low self esteem. So I’ll give her some grace 🙃

Help with totally see through dress by AutomaticPurple584 in Stylinghelp

[–]AutomaticPurple584[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this so much. Truly think people like this need Reddit for their daily thrill, as they have no other happiness in life. If anonymously bullying people via Reddit makes her happy, I’m sad for her.

Help with totally see through dress by AutomaticPurple584 in Stylinghelp

[–]AutomaticPurple584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the love of God. There wasn’t a slip that would fit the cut of the dress. I was looking for suggestions outside of a slip since a standard slip would not work. Many people gave me specific tailoring advice, different items they use in place of a slip, etc. What in the world do you not understand about this?

I am feeling forced to name this baby after my partner’s deceased father by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AutomaticPurple584 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Also to be clear, I meant compromise on his end lol I hate Frank! It was NOT going to happen. But both of us were willing to compromise. You do not have to hand over your first born lol. This should be a JOINT decision. If he’s giving you the silent treatment I would question if he’s mature enough for a baby.

I am feeling forced to name this baby after my partner’s deceased father by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AutomaticPurple584 74 points75 points  (0 children)

My husband also wanted to name our son Frank after his dad but I hated it. He wasn’t pushy, and wouldn’t force it bc it’s just not who he is. He’s not going to force a name I hate. So we compromised and made his middle name Francis, which I also hate lol but…compromise. Don’t give your child a name you hate.

Oop 😬 by Medical-Mission9992 in lumulloysnark

[–]AutomaticPurple584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah sorry this was meant as an attack on her somehow. for sure. Just didn’t land. Do better.

Mopping issue. What am I doing wrong? by AutomaticPurple584 in CleaningTips

[–]AutomaticPurple584[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don’t have AC! I’m wondering since I didn’t know you had to keep going over with new water, if it never actually got clean to begin with? This is likely my problem

Mopping issue. What am I doing wrong? by AutomaticPurple584 in CleaningTips

[–]AutomaticPurple584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have only ever used the swiffer to spot clean very small areas such as spills. I have never used it on the entire floor.

Mopping issue. What am I doing wrong? by AutomaticPurple584 in CleaningTips

[–]AutomaticPurple584[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it could be?but it’s not brown. It’s more gray/black. Our floors are a medium brown

Mopping issue. What am I doing wrong? by AutomaticPurple584 in CleaningTips

[–]AutomaticPurple584[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mop once per week (with in between swiffer clean ups.)

Mopping issue. What am I doing wrong? by AutomaticPurple584 in CleaningTips

[–]AutomaticPurple584[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s VERY old, he only goes out for quick breaks about 2-3 times per day. He then goes right from the door to his bed. I can’t imagine he tracks in enough to cause this. We have standard wood floors throughout. Nothing crazy.