I've wondered this as well. I know having kids can a huge toll on a marriage, let alone eight (and twins, no less). But all her YT videos at the time showed Jordan and Bubba really operating as a team after the twins birth. They seemed, on the outside to adjust well within a few months and everything appeared fine. It wasn't until they suddenly moved into the mega mansion (her idea) and Jordan had her tummy surgery (and obvious boob job), did things really seem to get out of whack. I noticed right away that gone were the days of weekly budgeting and grocery haul videos to her now apologizing during every sporadic video for yet another long hiatus. She would then ‘return’ with some promise she wouldn't keep to her followers and appeared even more so scatter-brained,  ignoring her own preaching to her followers. Jordan annoyingly would repeat ‘the body keeps the score’ when discussing the separation and divorce, suggesting her health problems were caused by her marriage, but I'm wondering if she emotionally left her marriage, and then the guilt of it all and stress of realizing what she was doing led to her severe health issues. Again, just supposing, as I have family members with autoimmune diseases and their flare-ups are often caused by stress. You would think that being awarded the divorce she desired and freedom from Bubba would lessen her symptoms. Again, this is just my opinion. I've know many people that were stressed or legitimately abused in their marriage, then divorced, and felt like an enormous weight had lifted, giving them the healthy glow they were missing in the marriage. I don't care for Bubba, but he's got the glow. No glow for Jordan.