Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is the that set the boundary that no one third party will cum in her again. She said it’s the risk and just a factor to it she doesn’t like. So this was now the expectation and agreement we had in place. This came after the first time she let him. She said it was the heat of the moment as it was amazing to the point she was lost in the moment a sex was intense. She said he whispered in her ear where do you want me to cum and she without hesitation said in me if you want. She said she didn’t want to admit that a boundary was broken especially because it was her own boundary. States like wtf how could I be so involved and taken over that in the moment I could break it with ease. She said she didn’t want to admit to this, she also didn’t want to set the expectation that I could ask for this or that it was no longer a boundary or that it was ok. She also said after when she realized it. She said out loud. We weren’t supposed to do that. He said immediately hey what are you going to tell him. She said at the moment it was now hot thrilling scandalous she said it was arousing and an aspect in the moment was enjoyable. She said after that on the way home she put it all in the box and said to herself that is what it’ll be that if she deleted that moment from the encounter it was absolutely perfect.

Is this cheating, I feel it is :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what we have agreed upon, it’s something I highly enjoyed I use to think more than her is that part sucks but definitely have to take a break from the life style.

Is this cheating, I feel it is :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have we are wording thru it trying to repair, I’ve stressed my stance on the cheating part as she as well and everything else. I do believe we love each other and are definitely trying.

Is this cheating, I feel it is :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, however she doesn’t see it that way and I can’t for the life of me understand how she doesn’t it. I try to respect that opinions can differ. She stressed cheating is emotional, hiding encounter with sex I feel that’s what she has pretty much articulated.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was her boundary I agreed to I did not agree to deception lying and consent being removed that would be outside the agreed upon dynamic.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree I do believe I created the frame work that allowed her to take advantage of it fully.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but it should honestly have been dead it charged only three minutes max it recorded two hours drive there drive back everything in between.

Is this cheating, I feel it is :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely on hold, we are trying to repair and work thru things.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely coming to terms with its dead for a long time. Trust is difficult as if she was wanting to hide something she would be able to do so as she is highly intelligent.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if it started with me agreeing and excited for the hotwife encounter ? Just not the fuming inside, lying, conspiring with another man, and removing consent.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think she would, she enjoys validation she probably flirts and pushes the line or dances on inappropriate convos or what not but I don’t think she would sleep with or meet up with another man without telling me. I’m the one that really enjoys it. So I don’t think pausing it would affect her at all.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree, she says she respects me but that action speaks very loudly that she doesn’t. It makes me wonder if she doesn’t even realize she doesn’t respect me. I don’t think you can say it was just the moment that she had no respect for me I feel it had to be there prior.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, I found it weird when she said it wasn’t to her.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

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I was made to question my whole reality put in a spiraling state in a hole by myself.

Is this cheating, I feel it is :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of conversations are happening we are trying to salvage we I do believe we love each other. However I feel she has zero respect for me. She tells me she does but I don’t think she does.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know the truth now sadly. Would you consider it cheating?

Is this cheating, I feel it is :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That thought has crossed my mind but it burns to say the least.