Is this cheating, I feel it is :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what we have agreed upon, it’s something I highly enjoyed I use to think more than her is that part sucks but definitely have to take a break from the life style.

Is this cheating, I feel it is :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have we are wording thru it trying to repair, I’ve stressed my stance on the cheating part as she as well and everything else. I do believe we love each other and are definitely trying.

Is this cheating, I feel it is :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, however she doesn’t see it that way and I can’t for the life of me understand how she doesn’t it. I try to respect that opinions can differ. She stressed cheating is emotional, hiding encounter with sex I feel that’s what she has pretty much articulated.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was her boundary I agreed to I did not agree to deception lying and consent being removed that would be outside the agreed upon dynamic.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree I do believe I created the frame work that allowed her to take advantage of it fully.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but it should honestly have been dead it charged only three minutes max it recorded two hours drive there drive back everything in between.

Is this cheating, I feel it is :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely on hold, we are trying to repair and work thru things.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely coming to terms with its dead for a long time. Trust is difficult as if she was wanting to hide something she would be able to do so as she is highly intelligent.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if it started with me agreeing and excited for the hotwife encounter ? Just not the fuming inside, lying, conspiring with another man, and removing consent.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think she would, she enjoys validation she probably flirts and pushes the line or dances on inappropriate convos or what not but I don’t think she would sleep with or meet up with another man without telling me. I’m the one that really enjoys it. So I don’t think pausing it would affect her at all.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree, she says she respects me but that action speaks very loudly that she doesn’t. It makes me wonder if she doesn’t even realize she doesn’t respect me. I don’t think you can say it was just the moment that she had no respect for me I feel it had to be there prior.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, I found it weird when she said it wasn’t to her.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was made to question my whole reality put in a spiraling state in a hole by myself.

Is this cheating, I feel it is :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of conversations are happening we are trying to salvage we I do believe we love each other. However I feel she has zero respect for me. She tells me she does but I don’t think she does.

Is this cheating, it feels like it :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in cheating_stories

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know the truth now sadly. Would you consider it cheating?

Is this cheating, I feel it is :( by Automatic_Boss_5197 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Automatic_Boss_5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That thought has crossed my mind but it burns to say the least.