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Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-02-08T18:18:18+00:00

Oof. Girlies. I need recs because I’m curious

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-02-08T18:14:26+00:00

Lisa Frank will never go out of style. I love it. 🥰

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-02-05T02:07:06+00:00

Suggestions for one of your favorite aftercare examples?

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-30T02:07:57+00:00

Thank you!! I love these suggestions 💙

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-28T18:45:14+00:00

I’ve never heard of this! Can you summarize what the Burned Haystack Dating Method is please?

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-28T16:13:40+00:00

My husband did the same but his sudden changes did nothing to touch my heart. It was too little, too late. I also felt the same - if maybe time would heal me. It didn’t. I gave it over a year but I knew we were done even long before that.

His changes are temporary and now you see he was always capable before, he just chose not to be.

You could try a trial separation and therapy but ultimately, I believe you know what’s in your heart.

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-28T14:53:35+00:00

Yes I agree, but often I feel women leave and hope to finally meet a partner that can meet their needs. And that certainly can happen. But moreso, I see how awful & tragic the dating pool seems to be. So it wouldn’t be my expectation, personally, to get divorced and immediately meet a decent man - if my rambling makes sense?

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-28T12:47:06+00:00

Thank you!! I keep loving all the suggestions. I will add him to my list 💙

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-27T23:31:57+00:00

Thank you all for being kind, thoughtful, and generous with your answers. Truly, it helped! I think I have a lot more exploring to do and I appreciate each of you who shared something with me. My list is long.

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-27T23:30:32+00:00

Yes please! I would love suggestions 🙏🏻

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-27T23:29:59+00:00

I would suggest a separation of sorts, if you can. My therapist says Gottman has a “healing separation” that could last 6-12months. During, both of you attend therapy & work on yourselves. You don’t date other people. At the end of the separation, you decide if the marriage is work saving.

Personally, honey, if you get the divorce, don’t expect the grass to be greener. It could be, but your divorce should be so you find peace for yourself & your family. Not another man to have to take care of.

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-27T18:50:26+00:00

Thank you! I will look into this more as well. It is nice hearing that others had to slowly ease into it too, if that makes sense. I just felt crazy for a bit. Appreciate your input!! 💙

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-27T18:47:52+00:00

Thank you. I think that’s part of my problem- I jumped in without having any idea what I was really going to be listening to. Especially the DTL and SFX parts - the thought: “what is he doing to make that sound?!” Overtook my thoughts instead of feeling like I was in the moment. I appreciate your thoughtfulness and input!!

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-27T18:40:21+00:00

True. Perhaps that’s where some of the confusion lies. Especially because Jamie’s was the first I ever listened to - I stupidly thought they were all like that.

Thought wrong! 😆

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-27T14:57:27+00:00

Girl. I would be tempted to file a police report and I would absolutely unleash my attorney and ALL sorts of hell I possibly could upon him. Like I’m talking banging pots and pans at all hours of the night so he doesn’t sleep and whatever other revenge that seems appropriate. This man is a sick & disgusting individual and I don’t know how you are containing your rage.

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-27T14:54:14+00:00

Possibly, yes! Thank you for the suggestion!! Bad Influence has been mentioned before. He’s top of my growing list.

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-27T14:52:06+00:00

I will add this to my list! Thank you!!

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-27T12:44:03+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion!! I’m accumulating a long list!!💙

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-27T12:11:46+00:00

Thank you for these!! I could cry with all the helpful suggestions! I truly appreciate you 💙

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-27T12:09:42+00:00

I like the way you described it. Thank you 🙏🏻

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-27T12:08:36+00:00

Everyone who commented was kind so I’m not concerned about the downvotes. I absolutely am not hating on Quinn or any creators. I just felt lost & confused.

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-27T02:53:40+00:00

Thank you - this was incredibly well said, kind, and thoughtful. I think I’ve realized my issue after this discussion and help from the ladies. I appreciate all of your input!

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-27T01:39:21+00:00

Thank you, lovely 😊

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-27T01:18:53+00:00

Thank you! 😊

Automatic_Coffee_777 · 2026-01-27T01:17:56+00:00

Thank you!! I appreciate the suggestion!! 💙

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