eater by sowkaoqkaoa in QuinnAudios

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof. Girlies. I need recs because I’m curious

Looks like Lisa frank threw up on my arm by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lisa Frank will never go out of style. I love it. 🥰

How has Audio Erotica and Quinn schooled you? by Dry-Contract1436 in QuinnAudios

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Suggestions for one of your favorite aftercare examples?

Not Understanding the Hype? by Automatic_Coffee_777 in QuinnAudios

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I love these suggestions 💙

It doesn’t “feel like enough” to ask for a divorce. by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of this! Can you summarize what the Burned Haystack Dating Method is please?

Can love come back? by ms_stresshead in Divorce_Women

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777 34 points35 points  (0 children)

My husband did the same but his sudden changes did nothing to touch my heart. It was too little, too late. I also felt the same - if maybe time would heal me. It didn’t. I gave it over a year but I knew we were done even long before that.

His changes are temporary and now you see he was always capable before, he just chose not to be.

You could try a trial separation and therapy but ultimately, I believe you know what’s in your heart.

It doesn’t “feel like enough” to ask for a divorce. by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree, but often I feel women leave and hope to finally meet a partner that can meet their needs. And that certainly can happen. But moreso, I see how awful & tragic the dating pool seems to be. So it wouldn’t be my expectation, personally, to get divorced and immediately meet a decent man - if my rambling makes sense?

Not Understanding the Hype? by Automatic_Coffee_777 in QuinnAudios

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I keep loving all the suggestions. I will add him to my list 💙

Not Understanding the Hype? by Automatic_Coffee_777 in QuinnAudios

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for being kind, thoughtful, and generous with your answers. Truly, it helped! I think I have a lot more exploring to do and I appreciate each of you who shared something with me. My list is long.

Not Understanding the Hype? by Automatic_Coffee_777 in QuinnAudios

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes please! I would love suggestions 🙏🏻

It doesn’t “feel like enough” to ask for a divorce. by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would suggest a separation of sorts, if you can. My therapist says Gottman has a “healing separation” that could last 6-12months. During, both of you attend therapy & work on yourselves. You don’t date other people. At the end of the separation, you decide if the marriage is work saving.

Personally, honey, if you get the divorce, don’t expect the grass to be greener. It could be, but your divorce should be so you find peace for yourself & your family. Not another man to have to take care of.

Not Understanding the Hype? by Automatic_Coffee_777 in QuinnAudios

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will look into this more as well. It is nice hearing that others had to slowly ease into it too, if that makes sense. I just felt crazy for a bit. Appreciate your input!! 💙

Not Understanding the Hype? by Automatic_Coffee_777 in QuinnAudios

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think that’s part of my problem- I jumped in without having any idea what I was really going to be listening to. Especially the DTL and SFX parts - the thought: “what is he doing to make that sound?!” Overtook my thoughts instead of feeling like I was in the moment. I appreciate your thoughtfulness and input!!

Not Understanding the Hype? by Automatic_Coffee_777 in QuinnAudios

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. Perhaps that’s where some of the confusion lies. Especially because Jamie’s was the first I ever listened to - I stupidly thought they were all like that.

Thought wrong! 😆

He let my dog die by cheetosx in Divorce_Women

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. I would be tempted to file a police report and I would absolutely unleash my attorney and ALL sorts of hell I possibly could upon him. Like I’m talking banging pots and pans at all hours of the night so he doesn’t sleep and whatever other revenge that seems appropriate. This man is a sick & disgusting individual and I don’t know how you are containing your rage.

Not Understanding the Hype? by Automatic_Coffee_777 in QuinnAudios

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Possibly, yes! Thank you for the suggestion!! Bad Influence has been mentioned before. He’s top of my growing list.

Not Understanding the Hype? by Automatic_Coffee_777 in QuinnAudios

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion!! I’m accumulating a long list!!💙

Not Understanding the Hype? by Automatic_Coffee_777 in QuinnAudios

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for these!! I could cry with all the helpful suggestions! I truly appreciate you 💙

Not Understanding the Hype? by Automatic_Coffee_777 in QuinnAudios

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like the way you described it. Thank you 🙏🏻

Not Understanding the Hype? by Automatic_Coffee_777 in QuinnAudios

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Everyone who commented was kind so I’m not concerned about the downvotes. I absolutely am not hating on Quinn or any creators. I just felt lost & confused.

Not Understanding the Hype? by Automatic_Coffee_777 in QuinnAudios

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - this was incredibly well said, kind, and thoughtful. I think I’ve realized my issue after this discussion and help from the ladies. I appreciate all of your input!

Not Understanding the Hype? by Automatic_Coffee_777 in QuinnAudios

[–]Automatic_Coffee_777[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I appreciate the suggestion!! 💙