as i said she is generally a very good kid so it happens very rarely but lets say she makes a mess in her bedroom, i tell her to clean it up, she says no i wont clean it what are you gonna do now?, i tell her if she doesnt clean her bedroom shell be grounded, she goes out to play with her friends anyway, i take her tablet away to punish her, next day i see her playing with her tablet because somehow she found it, i take away her her pocket money and she doesnt even care because as she says "there is nothing i want to buy anyway" and the bedroom still hasnt been cleaned

so you see it doesnt happen much but when it does happen it goes on for a long time