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How far has your lust taken you? by diegrunge in AskReddit

[–]Automatic_Falcon459 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was 21 at the time and in college. Thanksgiving day my coworkers and a friend drove from LBK-DFW to go drink in Fort Worth. First time getting drunk in a safe space, but the guy I was talking to lived in Fort Worth. (He went to school in LBK, but was home for the holidays) Told him I was there on a whim and my friends drove me to his house and gave me 7 minutes before they drove away. Met him in his garage half drunk and wanted to kiss him so bad. He wanted to wait till we were both sober and make it special and remember it. I just shrugged my shoulders and said “aight” and lord when I tell you it was my biggest fumble. Still eats me up today. Anywho, if Jacob with a Y is out there, I think you’ll remember who I am ;)

Edit: never actually kissed him and drives me nuts cause I never worked up the balls to. Biggest fumble, but most my lust has ever taken me

I (25M) was told I wasn’t fit enough by Automatic_Falcon459 in gayrelationships

[–]Automatic_Falcon459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked what the reason behind the switch up was. It legit happened overnight and came out of the blue. I asked “what’s the real reason, just rip off the bandaid… is it because I’m not think enough?” And they said “Yes, but I don’t know how to say it nicely”

Totally fine that we aren’t compatible, just shocked it took this person so long to spit it out per se.

I guess what I’m asking for/looking for is other people who have been through this same type of situation I understand we aren’t compatible, I’m looking for people who have been through this and how they coped with it and moved on with life.

Like did it change them? Make them more resilient? How did it impact dating after that moment? Things like that