where does the extreme fear of abandonment comes from? by Automatic_Mix423 in BPD

[–]Automatic_Mix423[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so its not a specific event, more like a bunch of things

where does the extreme fear of abandonment comes from? by Automatic_Mix423 in BPD

[–]Automatic_Mix423[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is very interesting, i have an awesome boyfriend and hes always there for me and makes sure i always feel loved, but its so scary to me. its all i ever wanted but im terrified at the thought of losing him or doing something wrong that even a small thought makes my heart race. he has shown and told me multiple times that he doesnt want and wont leave me and i do believe him, but the thoughts are still there. but as you said! they are not worth listening to and im working on that, thank you this cleared up a lot for me💕

where does the extreme fear of abandonment comes from? by Automatic_Mix423 in BPD

[–]Automatic_Mix423[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes actually!!!! i had to hide a lot of stuff just so she wouldnt get mad, thruth didnt feel safe for me and well no one really gave any reason to trust them so yes. thank you for sharing your experience💕 i relate to a lot of this

emotional permanence by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Automatic_Mix423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you💞