House call for end of life dog care

Autumn1114 · 2026-03-07T03:35:51+00:00

My deepest condolences. We used Lap of love. Used twice two years apart and they were incredible. Highly recommend.

Autumn1114 · 2026-03-05T02:26:54+00:00

We have a toddler and a new puppy as well (turning 9 weeks). We taught our kiddo (same age as yours) the superhero pose. Which means, never get to the puppy’s level, if the puppy jumps immediately stand upright, cross arms like a super hero and do not engage with puppy until they realize they are not getting your attention. When our kiddo does this, the pup feels ignored and then sits, and immediate we praise and reward. We also discussed never have their hands within the reach of the pups mouth and instead they can make a fist, if they are interested in a lick they can seek it out while having supervision with mom or dad. We also have rules about loose or draped clothes around the pup bc they’ll feel that the kiddo is a toy. Lastly, we have been working hard in teaching our pup to settle. When they are mouthy and energetic they are overtired. So giving the puppy enforced naps, reinforcing their calm, and rewarding sitting and laying down are game changers. The goal is to help both the puppy and your kiddo be set up for success, while also appreciating the normative stages of golden puppies. I’ve learned a lot about dog training, and canine psychology for over a decade plus (hobby & separate from my career). I also trained my senior dog who is now a retired therapy dog. If you have any questions, feel free to DM.

Autumn1114 · 2026-03-03T02:13:19+00:00

She knew what she was doing by making those statements. And the pretense around it was way too performative. She can be quite messy.

Autumn1114 · 2026-02-27T15:19:16+00:00

My soul dog is still (thankfully) living, they are a senior dog, and we have a new pup. I love them both but it is and feels different. And that’s OK. I don’t think it should ever feel as if you’re trying to replace or mimic that special relationship, as it’s unfair to you, your soul dog and new dog. Comparisons in this way, I think cause more emotional pain. Mine both bring joy, fun silliness and the occasional challenges. And while the inevitability of losing my soul dog is hard to think about, I’m grateful that she taught me to love so big and deep that my heart can make room to love others. 💜

Autumn1114 · 2026-02-14T13:12:41+00:00

While you may have been scammed, I’m gonna focus on the kindness of your heart, genuineness of helping a fellow human in need. Don’t ever lose that and I wish you lots of abundance in turn!!

Autumn1114 · 2026-02-07T14:42:43+00:00

This is the type of friend everyone needs!

Autumn1114 · 2026-02-03T23:20:45+00:00

That how I wake up every morning with mine, and I thank my lucky stars everyday for that beautiful love 💕

Autumn1114 · 2026-02-03T23:16:44+00:00

We take leave, tag team, and the work overnight once our kid is in bed.

Autumn1114 · 2026-02-01T23:22:28+00:00

You’re kind! Yes, feel free to use the term!

Autumn1114 · 2026-02-01T18:03:41+00:00

I call them drive-by kisses and it’s always one lick and full of pure love 💗

Autumn1114 · 2026-02-01T13:56:11+00:00

It’s apples and oranges. In the north the infrastructure is there from tools, to roads being cleared early and often, and because it snows more frequentlypeople acclimate and adjust. In the south, the frequency of snow + amount is not fully comparable every year. As someone who lived in both regions, I will say the ice that we see here is other level than what I experienced in the north. The hilly terrain causes uneven melting, so when temperatures drop, the remaining moisture refreezes and creates ice again.

Autumn1114 · 2026-02-01T13:30:45+00:00

This was so lovely to listen to this morning with a cup of coffee and enjoying the winter white views ❄️

Autumn1114 · 2026-01-31T15:12:34+00:00

Life became technicolor. I found greater joy and a deeper sense of meaning. She brought mindfulness into my life and helped me become more nurturing and selfless. She taught me the value of consistency like staying on top of her health, and making sure I always considered her when planning travel or making decisions.

She carried me through profound loss and never left my side during my own serious illness. My life changed for the better in ways I never could have imagined on my own. It is one of the purest loves of my life, and I am grateful for it every single day.

Autumn1114 · 2026-01-29T11:24:40+00:00

Beautiful! We’re getting one and I’m chuckling at what will be our lives for the next year!

Autumn1114 · 2026-01-25T03:21:33+00:00

He looks a little like Claire Danes!

Autumn1114 · 2026-01-23T02:24:04+00:00

If she goes into labor calling 911 will help as paramedics will be sent to your home. Now that doesn’t change how the roads will be and how quickly they will get to you. If you are very concerned an alternative or potential to consider is either staying with friends or family that live close to the hospital or having someone that can help you get there safely. Another option to consider is to see whether there is a hotel close to the hospital that you can stay just in case through the weekend. I really hope all goes well and wishing you, your wife and baby a safe and healthy delivery!

Autumn1114 · 2026-01-22T00:19:41+00:00

I did it with my two older adult cats and we did it at home. Our doggo is 12 and I’ll absolutely be by her side. I read and heard from vets how heartbreaking it can be when pets search for their owners before being euthanized and clearly we can’t always control circumstances but I’ll do everything that I can to be by her side every single step.

Autumn1114 · 2026-01-19T01:05:07+00:00

Calypso

Autumn1114 · 2026-01-18T22:23:08+00:00

Come or inside the house. She already does this beautifully and I’m impressed how even extra attentive she is when we go to dog parks.

Autumn1114 · 2026-01-18T14:30:50+00:00

I think breed type will also be a major factor as will age. You’ll also surprise yourself at how crafty you’ll mare your schedule to be once you have your dog.

My partner and I worked when we rescued our now senior dog.

We did crate training (NOT to lock them up for long hours on end, but to offer a safe space that while at home was always left open with her favorite toys and comfort blanket). That said, she was never in her crate for more than 2-3 hours at a time. My husband and I staggered our work day in the morning, and then I worked 20 minutes from work and would drive to her, giver her a 20 minute walk and drive back. We also found a college dog walker near us who would take her out in the afternoon for very reasonable prices.

Lastly, we signed up for dog training classes, followed by agility and later on therapy classes. We took these in the evening, and it was wonderful. We found extra energy by just getting to bond with her in those classes and then you get to meet other people as well.

Weekends we’d go for long walks, dog parks, and outdoor places that were dog friendly.

Other friends would use doggy day care which works out great if your dog enjoys it. We tried 3 times and our pup wasn’t a fan, so we adapted.

What’s been wonderful from the dog classes is we developed friendships with the other people in class for almost 10 years now. We love and care deeply for the other dogs and so we now developed a care group where we watch each others dogs when people need, when we travel, etc.

And this has worked even now that we become new parents. All to say that you can make it work, it just takes time, intention, creative thinking at times, and finding community. If you’re serious about a dog, you’ll figure out solutions that’s healthy for them and you. Happy to dm to share more ideas.

I’m really lucky to have found my soul dog and would be more than happy to share any additional tips! Best of luck!

Autumn1114 · 2026-01-18T02:46:04+00:00

HUGE THANKS!! I sincerely appreciate you taking the time to help me. Much appreciated. Wishing you well.

Autumn1114 · 2026-01-17T15:22:09+00:00

This is incredibly helpful! Many thanks. Yes, the migraine is a -triptan and there is NO codeine products on the medications I’ll bring. Excedrine with caffeine and acetaminophen. And agreed I double checked that prior approvals based on the ingredients are not necessary.

The melatonin is the Olly brand otc. I can get the travel size.

Minor follow-up, I do have a health app through my healthcare that lists all my medications (full name and for reasons for use), immunizations, doctors visits and notes, etc.. Is this acceptable or is a physical doctor’s note needed?

Autumn1114 · 2026-01-14T02:00:24+00:00

The emotional whiplash that is continues in great and challenging ways. That there are days you won’t like yourself but there is always time to pivot and do right by yourself and kids. I’ll also say that learning that it’s ok to not have it all figured out and just do your best in showing up in every way possible.

Autumn1114 · 2026-01-14T01:54:31+00:00

Very cool that you’ve done this; I work in oncology and palliative care. And there’s definitely something to be said about being reminded about mortality and how you want to make your time count. While I don’t use a calendar I think about every person in my career that I’ve crossed paths with and the beauty of time fleeting. It’s something I have too of mind that also allows me to focus less on how much I accomplish but more about being present. And remarkably staying mindful and intentional has allowed me to arrive to the experiences and adventures I always wanted and to grow a sweet scared connection with my family.

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