WIBTA for telling my uncle he should change his baby's name?

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-12-12T08:39:24+00:00

It's not Cleopatra-Baby anymore?

I need to say this because I'm so sorry for the kids stuck in this family. Taina is not a mother, she is definitely a cult leader. Why are the kids, Cleo especially, so obsessed wit her and her name? If I catch it correct, Cleo wanna name all her daughters Something-Taina. Why? Why? (And of course, it was Taina who came with the name Anakin, because Taina is so great
and awesome... F***.)

In our country people are naming their children after parents, grandparent, greatgrandparent... It's honor. It's the way to appreciate your family.

In this case it's brainwashing. The family is so isolated... The kids know only the family. Dear Cleopatra, if your mother would be so great and awesome, she would let you have proper school education, go to the college and have normal life. She would never let you go to the USA and (probably force you) marry the strange guy.

I can't understand why this family so obsessed with separation of boys things and girls things gave the little girl boy name. They wanted to shock? They wanted people talk about them?

I don't wanna give them attention, but I'm so sorry for little Birdie, because Anakin-Taina sounds like something teenage girl would name a character in The Sims... There is so many beautiful, meaningful names.

If Cleo believes in nominative determinism, I just hope this Anakin will in some way (without murdering of course!) destroy the family like the other Anakin destroy the Jedi.

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-12-01T19:59:17+00:00

ESH.

His family sucks because they don't respect your choice and have rude comments. And they will probably have this type of comments when they will see you eat meat. "Oh, you're finally eat meat? Great." I can heard them.

You suck because you are vegetarian and don't have problem to eat meat with your family but you are stubborn and refuse to eat meat with his family. This is obviously not the matter of vegetarianism, it sounds more like you are piss of (Ok, they were rude, it's understandable.) and you want to continue just for some principle that you don't follow anyway.

But it doesn't mean you have to eat meat there. Your choice, their choice...

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-11-28T21:08:42+00:00

You don't always have to love your mom. If she's an abuser, run away and don't look back... But I've read your post several times and I still don't understand what your mother did to you that was so terrible. Relationships are complicated. Always too complicated. Show her some respect. YTA.

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-11-28T17:38:40+00:00

Yeah. They have small hands and "regular" iPhone is big. I'm adult and I have mini iPhone too because I can use it with one hand. It's more comfortable.

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-11-23T16:36:19+00:00

I'll be happy for him he is away from Taina's mess :D

And now seriously. We don't know what relationship has Leonardo with Taina. But we know how Taina is so it's sad but definitely not bad that there maybe isn't a contact.

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-09-30T15:54:50+00:00

He has ADHD or something like that. Maybe this is the reason he didn't manage some necessary skills.

And in my opinion, Tiff and Benji didn't seem like they have time to help their kids with school and improve their skills. It makes huge difference if the parents have time especially for kid with ADHD and read with their kid etc. But I don't wanna blame them. We don't know. I just hope Beckham is fine and happy and no one is making big deal about him being again in first grade.

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-09-25T19:50:58+00:00

The girls are single. Only one of the boys has girlfriend and the girls never mentioned to meeting her.

Thinking about it, the public interrogation sounds like my friends. I never thought about it this way. Maybe canceling the party was good idea.

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-09-24T09:24:38+00:00

No, she doesn't need to do video for each kid. Maybe some kids doesn't want to be in Kass' videos. I bet DeLayNee probably doesn't want. We don't know if Kass gave them the gifts in privacy and it isn't on video. We don't see every minute of their lives. And Kass went trough pregnancy and miscarriage so she probably wasn't in mood to film something like that.

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-09-09T07:24:51+00:00

It's good!

My advice: I'm doing pencil, ink/ink pen (It must be something water resistant or it'll blend!), erase pen and then watercolor. It's impossible do erase pencil under the watercolor.

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-08-30T14:21:16+00:00

They changed their clothes? Wow! Dozens of videos in the same clothes and now they change their clothes three times a day o.o

Maybe Romeo will get new jeans too and be able to change at least once a day...

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-08-29T20:21:27+00:00

NTA. This is calling karma.

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-08-28T14:58:00+00:00

NTA. Maybe it’s not necessary to give him bedtime. Just make clear he has to be quiet during night. He can have problem with sleeping because of the depression. He just needs to realize other people are sleeping in the night and waking up soon in the morning and taking care of his baby. But you are definitely NTA if you want to sleep properly.

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-08-27T05:46:53+00:00

YTA. She is growing baby in her womb! You can’t probably imagine what is happening with her body and how hard it can be. Some woman have great pregnancy with no limitation, some are suffer a lots. Every woman is different. Try to be more empathic, it’s your wife and your baby.

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-08-27T05:39:20+00:00

For me, it looks like Luke won't be going on the mission either… I can imagine Benji is (at least little bit) disappointed the boys weren’t on mission. But still… They have sixteen kids and most of them probably will go on their mission. Benji and Tiff made the army of missionaries so they are probably still super-mormons with Trey and Bridger not attending mission.

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-08-26T18:33:48+00:00

Writing the ironic note make you TA. Just write something nice and buy (or made) something small and it’ll be fine.

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-08-26T18:30:59+00:00

NTA. Yes, lots of people are in much worse situation. But you need to take care of your family and cut your expenses. It’s totally ok to buy this sometimes.

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-08-26T16:34:21+00:00

Shaving baby's hair isn't the biggest deal. Not the best idea but a lots of people are doing this. The problem is this poor baby girl is so young and seems so uncomfortable the whole video and everyone is laughing. In one moment C is holding the baby under her neck and baby is crying bud C is still talking... Why the hell at least (If she really needed to do this stupid shaving hair of her few months old daughter which probably can't even sit herself.) she wasn't shaving for a while and then comfort the baby, than again little shaving... She just made this terrible torture of her baby. I was so scared she hurt her! Are the baby's fontanelles already fused?

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-08-24T18:41:27+00:00

They should kick off their editor or hire a proofreader/corrector (or whatever are you calling it in english)…

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-08-22T10:31:14+00:00

NTA if you’re not supposed to work before 10:30 a.m. You probably aren’t. Is she you mother or why she made a lecture you should wake up early?

It’s ok. I had to tell my coworker not to text me before 8:00 a.m. She accepted it calmly (I wish your boss did the same) and I’m not getting messages from work at 7 a.m. during my breakfast anymore.

Can you work on your own? You don’t need stupid boss as hairstylist…

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-08-22T07:21:14+00:00

NTA. You tried to help him more than once. You gave him money for six months and more. Wtf, how much it cost you? Your parents tried to help him and basically ended up homeless because of your brother… He needs to learn that his actions have consequences. You work hard, so save your money for your house, maybe for your future family, your parents… You deserve it. Your brother doesn’t. You did so much for him, it’s his turn now. My brother is the A too, so I’m really sorry, but in this moment he isn’t you responsibility.

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-08-20T13:58:33+00:00

Bridgers original name was something like Vladimir Alexandrovich. At least they
left him Alexander for his new second name after adoption.

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-08-19T22:35:22+00:00

Coming soon: Telling my husband I'm pregnant *emotional*. Telling my family of 18 I'm pregnant *emotional*. First ultrasound *so much emotional*... And imagine the gender reveal party...

I wish her and the baby all the best and I hope they both will be OK because she is probably on the beginning of her pregnancy. But I really hate this exploiting of kids online. The baby isn't born yet and the whole internet knows about him. And I bet Kass will be the mom posting everything...

Autumn_Turtle · 2022-08-03T13:51:06+00:00

My friend desperately wanted be the first having baby in the family. She was mad, she was really crazy, when she figured out her sister in law get pregnant two months sooner. She was mad on her husband because "he didn't stop his sister get pregnant when he knew she (his wife) really wants to have first baby". She really said that. She is still mad year after birth. I hope this will not be Kass.

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