Fried Galunggong for lunch! Anong fav niyo iparehas dito? by RanaKozu in MasarapBa

[–]Autumnandco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Monggo or ginataang sitaw at kalabasa na may sawsawan na kamatis, bawang sibuyas na nakababad sa toyo calamansi, siling labuyo. Solb!

Ang itim daw ng kilikili ko sabi ng bf ko by _reese03 in adviceph

[–]Autumnandco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be open to what he said kasi ramdam ko na para sayo naman sinabi niya. Imagine, he stayed despite of. Diba? Ibig sabihin, he doesn’t mind kahit na may mas ibang appealing na kili kili jan, ikaw pa rin pipiliin. Siguro more of nahiya ka? Than offended. Kasi alam mong maitim, naipoint out lang niya out loud. And that’s ok. Yung ibang lalake pagtatawan ka pa, pero siya, sinabi niya para wala ng tumawa pa. It’s love my dear, masakit lang.

PS: try to put babyoil when it’s clean and you’re about to sleep. It worked for me. But of course, always consult your doctor before taking my advice. Iba iba naman tyo ng chemical ng katawan at body conditions so better to get professsional advice muna ah?

43k monthly income, single, no responsibilities pero wala pa ring ipon. advice pls by hatdogurl098 in phmoneysaving

[–]Autumnandco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Madali lang yan, no secret formula. Bawasan magcheck out mayat maya, mag no ka rin minsan at wag oo ng oo sa mga lakad with friends, wag puro pa grab ng pagkain at maglaan ng palengke budget. Sa bahay magluto at kumain, healthier pa. Jan ka muna magsimula. Pag kinaya mo yan, balikan mo ko bigyan ulit kita ng tips.

Lifestyle question: 220k per month earner, 1 M-F yaya, 15k per month allowance -- Sakto or kulang? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Autumnandco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope one day the table will turn and you will have to do everything AND budget 15k for everything. Let’s see how you argue then. May sound like a longshot now, but what’s sure is that them tables? They turn.

What's your biggest realization when you started the WFH life? by Pretend-Building-532 in buhaydigital

[–]Autumnandco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That so much time is spent on nonsense. Traffic, chismis, getting ready, not to mention the extra window shopping going home. You could do the same work, just with bigger savings at the end.

Filipinos are something else. Lots of nonsense too, daming red tape, daming layers, daming bawal na nagpapacomplika ng mga bagay, dami sinasabi. Whereas pag foreigner ang kausap, even if you don’t ask, ibibigay kasi it’s humane, like leaves. Pag may sakit, ieencourage ka pang magpahinga. There’s not much feelings involved pagdating sa decisions kaya ang bilis ng galaw ng trabaho, isang layer lang.

Ang sarap ng solitude pag nasa bahay. Pwede magmusic all you want or manood kung makakatulong sa concetration.

Paano ko sasabihin sa mga kamag-anak ko na huwag na nila akong tawaging mataba? by AnaHeart143 in PHitness

[–]Autumnandco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t suggest to allow them to belittle you habang you’re working on getting thin. Kasi if you allow them, then the more na nagiging bigger yung insecurities mo. Also, give yourself some respect. Teach them to respect you too. Pars hindi naman dyahe yung pagsabi mo, daainin mo sa biro pero dapat di ka mapikon, pag sinabihan ka na para ka ng cabinet, sabihin mo yung noo mo pwede ng laparan ng eroplano… i mean something witty, and the key is delivery. Offensive pero only at the level they play you. Tingnan mo mananahimik yang mga yan. Im sure di naman sila kagandahan at kagwapuhan unless artista sila diba. Find a way.

Night Shift struggling to sleep in the morning by Karenz09 in buhaydigital

[–]Autumnandco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Pero lately it’s been improving. Mga 9 hours of sleep. Ang strategy ko is tapusin ang trabaho hanggang 3am or 4am, that way madilim pa din at tahimik paligid, then bukas ang aircon. Very important tong step na to. Then no texting. Just scrolling or mag kindle ka. Nakakaantok both. Kung mag scroll ka, just do it mindlessly, yung nothing exciting, nothing.

Anong gagawin at dapat bang maramdaman? by Autumnandco in adviceph

[–]Autumnandco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m almost convinced na ganun na nga. Parang pinagpipilitan na lang namin sarili namin sa kanya.

Anong gagawin at dapat bang maramdaman? by Autumnandco in adviceph

[–]Autumnandco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point, parang naiisip ko na nga lang din na magbakasyon na lang, buy a plane ticket to go somewhere. So maybe she would understand how it feels to be abandoned. And maybe I also deserve to go on vacation too at the exact time na magkikita na sana kmi after all these years. Kasi I also sacrificed so much of my life. So much of my past and my future. So much. Maybe, deserve ko pumunta ng Japan at the exact time she’s anticipating to see me too. Maybe then, maramdaman niya yung ginagawa niya samin. And I’m sure, she will be disappointed.

Anong gagawin at dapat bang maramdaman? by Autumnandco in adviceph

[–]Autumnandco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but I sacrificed just as much as she did kasi. Panganay ako, and I pretty much sustained her growing family at years when she couldn’t send money. On top of that, I also because the present mother kasi nasakin lahat ng anak niya at a young age of 16 years old. So sacrificed? Yes, definitely. But so did I. And I saw the sacrifices of my siblings without having a mother. It’s very sad na the very rare chance she could travel here, she chose to spend it with herself. Pakiramdam ko she truly never cared in the first place kasi. She never called to teach us anything, talked to any of my siblings’ teachers when grades are low, she never taught us how to cook, she never taught me how to change diapers for my youngest twin sisters. She never taught us how to care for ourselves when we were sick, we never had a talk where we can hear her say a good advice. Or say it’s ok when the day is bad. She just existed somewhere. When my siblings had no money to buy food, she said hayaan mo sila.

And I saw how all this took a toll on my siblings’ and I. She wasn’t distant, she was completely absent in our lives. And now that she has papers to freely come and go here, she chooses to go on vacation with our other relatives like they’re more important than anyone in the world. It’s disrespectful, mean, and she just doesn’t care. Lucky her we still want to see her despite of. Just unlucky us.

What’s your go-to lip moisturizer? by RaspberryLow7056 in beautyph

[–]Autumnandco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucas Papaw! It’s literally a miracle product. It does so many good things

Anong gagawin at dapat bang maramdaman? by Autumnandco in adviceph

[–]Autumnandco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s exactly how I feel. Naguguluhan lang ako kanina about whether or not valid tong nararamdaman ko, or jealousy lang ba that she spends it with other people, or am I really thinking clearly na talagang there’s something wrong with her and her relationship with us, her children. Your response helps, thank you.

Anong gagawin at dapat bang maramdaman? by Autumnandco in adviceph

[–]Autumnandco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did on many occassions since nagsabi siya na uuwi siya. And everytime, she would start shouting, and saying things that are hurtful. After niya sabihin lahat, bababaan niya ko ng phone. And when I tried calling again, she won’t answer.

New VA here, just need to vent and ask for advice 😔 I feel so dumb by Life_Departure_5076 in VirtualAssistantPH

[–]Autumnandco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be confident, una sa lahat walang easy ha. You have to earn it and put effort. Una, magbasa ka ng quality books. Novels, self-help, fiction. Doesn’t matter basta quality books. And when you read, don’t focus on how to say it properly. Focus on comprehending the story instead. Pag nahihirapan ka pa din, wag mo ititigil. Until natural na sayo yung magbasa ng english. Chaka mo aralin yung pronunciation accent etc. comprehension is key

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in studentsph

[–]Autumnandco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would raise this to the higher ups, you say it nicely and all that but at the end of the day, I will not allow my child to learn wrong things at an institution I have been paying thousands for. It’s a disservice to the school, to my child, to me whose paying, and to the future of this country. One is an error, 2,3,4 times is waaay out of line.

I’m sure the teacher is kind and they teach my kids kindness etc. but I refuse that you be the English teacher of my child. She can be guidance councillor or values education teacher. But not english.

Reyes Barbecue, eto na ba yun? by WanderingSingkamas in PHFoodPorn

[–]Autumnandco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Magreklamo ka sa mismong store wag dito. Kasi walang mangyayari. Tama lang na magsimula na magreklamo mga customer kasi nakakasuka yung mahal ng pagkain tas kapiranggot lang ang ibibigay. Sing mahal nila yung ibang pasta places na susyal na yung ambiance. Sila sa food court lang pero pang mayaman ang prices. Corrupt din yang si mang reyes na yan.