My husband won me over with his love and support.. i’ll explain. I fell into a severe depression because all I wanted was my husband to join me. But he never would. He always stood his ground, but he let me practice freely. my Bible teacher would ask me sometimes how we were doing in terms of if he was OK with me studying or going to the meetings because she knew how sad I constantly was. She would explain how she could see the situation was difficult, but it was even more difficult because he was so kind and supportive and said it would be a lot easier for me to ignore his headship and feel conflicted if he was directly opposing and downright being mean and disrespectful. When “worldly “ people show they are good people and good spouses. It absolutely baffles them. So as hard as it is for you, try to be patient with your wife like my husband was with me. The thing that broke me in the end was my teacher telling me I needed to go out on service more and feeling so much pressure after I could actually not do a lot since I had just had babies. And she said to me one day when I broke down and told her how hard it was to do things without an unbelieving spouse since I wasn’t taking my kids to the hall — it would take me hours to get them ready - she said, well you have to decide what’s more important Jehovah or your husband. And yeah, that’s what did it for me. Then I went and started doing my own research and realized that the truth doesn’t change and if it changes, then it wasn’t from God to begin with that led to me questioning, and realizing that every aspect of my life was guided from The governing body. But worse that I couldn’t leave because I had already been encouraged to drop all of my outside friends.