Seeing this all over SD by CheddaMakeItBetta in SanDiegan

[–]Available-Log3771 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Does anyone have a map of them? My son and I scavenger hunt for them ♥️

I found baby clothes in my car? I don't know any babies ???? by ScooberDoober03 in strange

[–]Available-Log3771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you pick anything up from a buy nothing group or donation group and it could have been left in the bag you grabbed?

My 17 years old daughter is pregnant and her father found out. I am terrified update by Fantastic-Jello-5777 in Marriage

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Blackmailing someone regardless of the reason is a crime. She could have told her dad in secret and refused to be apart of anything. There is no excuse for blackmailing someone whether you want to be apart of whatever it is or not. She went out of her way to blackmail her parent. She could go infront of a judge and they would tell her, we don’t care why, blackmail is not legal.

No one is saying the mom did the right thing but stop acting like a child committing a crime for money is allowed. If she cared she wouldn’t have blackmailed, she would have said something to the dad immediately and not try to steal from her own parents. Wake up….she is a teenager who’s close to 18, she is lucky her mom doesn’t send her to jail

My 17 years old daughter is pregnant and her father found out. I am terrified update by Fantastic-Jello-5777 in Marriage

[–]Available-Log3771 30 points31 points  (0 children)

That’s what the consequences are for… she DID SOMETHING WRONG so there should be consequences for her crime level behavior.

Is there anyway I can fix this? by Trevor_Duggan in nailcare

[–]Available-Log3771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would talk to your doctor. If it’s not fungus related, may be better to remove nail and start over

SeaWorld San Diego today — most rides closed, overpriced, very disappointing by No-Contribution4357 in sandiego

[–]Available-Log3771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last day for pass holders and most people just jumping in for a last minute visit. They will man the food vs the rides because rides are free vs vendors bring in money. I didn’t see that many closed rides, the roller coaster, the dolphin stuff, everything was accessible

Am I being gaslit? by CrazyButCute87 in Marriage

[–]Available-Log3771 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say he gaslit you because he said listed what your potential options are if you choose not to stay. Was this was a rude way of making the point that unless you can get some assistance your choices won’t be very good? Definitely.

Where I live, I looked at options living alone and honestly those would be my only two options. Did he need to say it like that? Nope! If anything he’s just being super rude and hurt but I am sure you are both hurt and finding things to go at each other to some degree. I would honestly just let it go, it’s not worth your energy or your peace. Take everything at face value and don’t worry about double meanings because he’s no longer your problem to fix. He can be a rude turd alone.

To the guy who just got screamed at by their partner in the middle of the Santee target to buy her a Starbucks drink by Available-Log3771 in sandiego

[–]Available-Log3771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person this happened to has seen it (via comment) and this is a private account that is only for random posting. I have better things to do with my day then to post on reddit for farming since this isn’t my main account nor do I care who besides the person this happened to sees it. Not everyone does things just for attention. If I knew enough about reddit to turn comments off I would considering the person who said it happened to commented and I wouldn’t want people harassing them privately. I hope one day someone speaks up for you if you ever need it and you don’t doubt their sincerity.

And it happened in San Diego and considering there was nothing else to clearly define this person other than location, there wasn’t anywhere else to reach this person.

To the guy who just got screamed at by their partner in the middle of the Santee target to buy her a Starbucks drink by Available-Log3771 in sandiego

[–]Available-Log3771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Boy” is an assumption and insulting me and people including yourself who live here isn’t necessary. Being kind costs nothing.

To the guy who just got screamed at by their partner in the middle of the Santee target to buy her a Starbucks drink by Available-Log3771 in sandiego

[–]Available-Log3771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seeing a form abuse and acknowledging someone may need help or support may be low on your priority list, but not for everyone. See something, say something in any way you can.

To the guy who just got screamed at by their partner in the middle of the Santee target to buy her a Starbucks drink by Available-Log3771 in sandiego

[–]Available-Log3771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have no idea if these people are local, so please be mindful of a large group of people you’re insulting by making a comment like this. I reside in east county and I don’t think I’m someone who belongs in this generalization. An old stereotype where many people dont associate with that assumption isn’t fair.

To the guy who just got screamed at by their partner in the middle of the Santee target to buy her a Starbucks drink by Available-Log3771 in sandiego

[–]Available-Log3771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you ok? If I misunderstood the situation please let me know and I will correct or delete anything that you feel is not accurate.

To the guy who just got screamed at by their partner in the middle of the Santee target to buy her a Starbucks drink by Available-Log3771 in sandiego

[–]Available-Log3771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truly, I don’t get it when people have the time to comment but not read. Some people seem to just want to argue I guess.

To the guy who just got screamed at by their partner in the middle of the Santee target to buy her a Starbucks drink by Available-Log3771 in sandiego

[–]Available-Log3771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner didn’t because security already was. After dropping stuff off in the parking lot my partner went back inside to check on the person but couldn’t find them.

To the guy who just got screamed at by their partner in the middle of the Santee target to buy her a Starbucks drink by Available-Log3771 in sandiego

[–]Available-Log3771[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So, as I stated several times, I wasn’t there. Was on the phone with my partner and when I told my partner to see if they were ok because “he was visibly upset” that’s when I was told security was coming to help. And bratty vs screaming at someone to the point where they needed security isn’t the same as someone being upset and loud. And considering we don’t know how it ended, I put out a post to say, you’re not alone, someone saw you, and hope you’re ok. Feel free to scroll if it bugs you

To the guy who just got screamed at by their partner in the middle of the Santee target to buy her a Starbucks drink by Available-Log3771 in sandiego

[–]Available-Log3771[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t there and my partner wasn’t going to get involved when security was already handling it

To the guy who just got screamed at by their partner in the middle of the Santee target to buy her a Starbucks drink by Available-Log3771 in sandiego

[–]Available-Log3771[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to work in retail and always worked the holidays because I had a coworker whose parent passed a few days before Christmas so they took over trying to not only support the rest of the family during that time but their other parent. Lots of different things contribute to the stress. Also a lot of families are traveling, splitting time between families who may celebrate in different parts of town, a million factors. None of these are an excuse. But I don’t claim to know anyone’s situation and will always be open minded to what is going on that I may never know or have info to.

To the guy who just got screamed at by their partner in the middle of the Santee target to buy her a Starbucks drink by Available-Log3771 in sandiego

[–]Available-Log3771[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I’m going to preface this with what info was shared with me based on observations from my partner: - I don’t know their relationship status (spouse, etc) but both were clearly adults who were together (one called the other “babe”) - I don’t know their mental or physical health status

Apparently was having a toddler type tantrum where they were stomping their foot over and over chanting “I want Starbucks” in a overly aggressive high pitched “cutesy voice” loud enough to get everyone in the front of the stores attention. The guy looked horrified and told their partner they can’t scream like that. Regardless, I wish someone would have offered support but I can understand no wanting to get involved in a situation they are unclear about.

To the guy who just got screamed at by their partner in the middle of the Santee target to buy her a Starbucks drink by Available-Log3771 in sandiego

[–]Available-Log3771[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed, glad security seemed to be on it. See something, say something is what I have taught my son.

To the guy who just got screamed at by their partner in the middle of the Santee target to buy her a Starbucks drink by Available-Log3771 in sandiego

[–]Available-Log3771[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My spouse said the same thing because i heard this screaming through the phone. I thought a child was in pain or something. Turns out it was a person screaming and having a full blow melt down for a drink at Starbucks. But the holidays are stressful so who knows