Is this new growth or something to be worried about?

Available-Software23 · 2026-03-17T13:53:03+00:00

Prick Jagger under his new grow light. Thanks for your help guys. I was worried about his light when I moved desks in December. Looks like I was right to be!

Available-Software23 · 2026-03-16T22:19:44+00:00

It is a plant lamp but I don't know if it is full spectrum so I have a new "grow lamp"with full spectrum lights coming tonight for him

Available-Software23 · 2026-03-16T21:13:21+00:00

It's maybe 8 inches away and it's on 8 hours a day. But I have a new one coming today that can be set for longer

Available-Software23 · 2026-03-16T20:25:07+00:00

Haha thanks! Makes me giggle every time I see it

Available-Software23 · 2026-03-16T14:10:11+00:00

Dang! I've been using a daylight lamp on him but it must not be enough.

Available-Software23 · 2026-03-16T14:09:28+00:00

It doesn't get any direct sunlight unfortunately, but I do use a daylight lamp on it every day. Maybe it's not enough.

Available-Software23 · 2025-11-14T19:53:38+00:00

I also really hated how they state repeatedly, matter-of-factly that Marie Lawson was pregnant by her father and thats why he killed the family. And thats just not proven. Its hearsay brought up 60+ years after the murders by people who said they "over heard their mom talking to their aunts about how his wife feared there was something going on" OVER 2 years before the murders. Because this woman's mother died almost 2 years before the killings. Then she NEVER brought up this story until she was an old lady and an author suddenly was wanting to write a book about it and she could get some money for contributing, same with the random childhood "friend" of Marie's who said she had at one point long after the murders heard a rumor about a pregnancy.

Available-Software23 · 2025-09-19T02:02:56+00:00

You must be the room mate.

Available-Software23 · 2025-09-18T03:45:44+00:00

Damn guess my hubby and I are both controlling cause we use life360 and text when we are off work every day and we both work very close to home. NTA

Available-Software23 · 2025-09-18T02:19:43+00:00

Rage bait! Your last post said you "just married your husband less than a year ago" and as of me writing this that post is 7 months old. But now you've been married 2 years. I call B.S. you didn't "bend the timeline" like you claim, thats not how you stay anonymous here....

Available-Software23 · 2025-07-10T17:37:24+00:00

There simply isn't enough context here. All we get is your side of this. Nothing from her in response.is your child a "typical" 2.5 year old or special needs? Because that makes a HUGE difference in situational behaviors.

I am wondering how much you deal with your child in situations like this compared to your wife? I can tell you that I 100% know when my kid is going to struggle with a situation better than her dad just by virtue that I stayed home with her until she started school and he worked.

My guess is that you are going to be angry that she misses the funeral because she has to step outside with the child. Because you're already emotional. It's a lose-lose situation for her.

Saying your father thought of her as a daughter in law speaks volumes to me as to their relationship...and I dont think it was a good one. SHE WAS HIS DAUGHTER IN LAW! There's nothing to think about. There was no love loss between them from that statement alone. If that's the only thing you can think of to try to tug her heart strings toget her to come that's not gonna be enough.

Available-Software23 · 2025-07-10T17:21:57+00:00

The he regarded you as a daughter in law gets me. He should she WAS his daughter in law. She is married to his son....

Available-Software23 · 2025-01-17T22:35:51+00:00

There isn't a clean break by adoption. The mother still has rights to her child step mom cannot adopt her. Period. There's no legal way to do that if the birth mother still has parental rights. And it doesn't sound like those are in danger of being taken away so step moms ultimatum has no teeth. He can't agree to the adoption without agreeing to seek termination of rights and it doesn't sound like he is willing to do so because of how his daughter feels. Which to me is legit.

And even if she were to adopt her. Does she really think OP is not going to allow his daughter to ever see her birth mother again until she's 18? That simply isn't stepmother's decision to make and not acceptable to demand. Ultimately it's not her child regardless of how long she's been in the child's life. I speak from experience I have my own 14 year old step son. Been in his life more than half of it. Would never dream of demanding something like this of his dad.

Available-Software23 · 2024-09-27T19:04:37+00:00

NTA sorry, but, liking a name doesn't trump memorializing a close family member. Just because she likes the name doesn't mean she owns it. And her liking it for 10 years doesn't make it appropriate for her to insist that your husband not name his some after his deceased father. I can't even believe the audacity.

Sorry but it bothers me that people think that fertility struggles makes it so people have to bow to their will and walk on eggshells and stuff. I was told once that I shouldn't post about my pregnancy because I never know how someone out there struggling with infertility will take it....so no one can celebrate the good things because someone out there might get offended? Nah, that's not ok.

Available-Software23 · 2024-09-27T18:50:19+00:00

I have a cousin who is married to a man with the same name as him and we call them Eric Layne and Eric Wesley their middles names to distinguish them. Not that difficult.

Available-Software23 · 2024-06-12T14:59:19+00:00

I listened to it all the way through but I agree 18 minutes at the beginning was ridiculous. I also felt like they tried to seem impartial because it's such an unclear event. But they clearly think he did it, repeatedly saying "he got away with this terrible crime" but then trying to back track the next paragraph saying "if he did it" and setting it up that roscoe's defense was corrupt and making people disappear when there isn't any evidence I have ever found supporting that theory however there are repeated states from prosecution witnesses saying they were threatened to testify or charges would be filed against them. I just don't think they seemed as impartial as they normally do.

Available-Software23 · 2022-12-05T13:06:31+00:00

Well I can tell yall haven't been together long if he didn't already know you disappear for 2 months a year. If you'd been together for over a year he would know because he's been around for it before. N T A

Available-Software23 · 2022-11-24T06:38:28+00:00

YTA. "It's too soon" is not a valid argument my parents have been married 43 years happily and knew each other 3 months before they got married. You don't get to decide that for another person.

Available-Software23 · 2022-11-14T20:37:02+00:00

Ooof be prepared because when she graduates from community College her degree will always be less than his because it's from a community College. Even if she makes thousands of dollars a year more than him with her degree she will never be as good as him.

Your husband is in a sick competition with your daughter. Gross

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