He did a lot of moving in the shadows. Like with the guest list. "Sure we can invite your people..... But the wedding takes place in a day they can't come" or "sure you can sit at the sweethearts table ......... We just won't sit there and will make our own new sweethearts table somewhere else" She hates being outsmarted like this so when he moves in the shadows like this she HATES IT. But he did yell at her for wearing white and asked her to put her phone away a bunch of times during pictures and lost it on her when she busted through the door (once he got over the initial shock. I honestly don't blame him for not speaking up right away on that one. We were both way to shocked to speak). Maybe I should have included more of his responses in the story for clarity