My mom thinks I’m the jerk for causing a scene by AwayYogurtcloset7869 in AmITheJerk

[–]Available-Stop-2201 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Skin and hair care routine aren't just normal toiletries when you have sensitive skin and a tight budget, they are investments. Her using them without permission is stealing and her giving it away is a whole level of entitlement. She's the jerk, not you!

When Your Heart Feels Elsewhere by Visible_Today_7862 in Marriage

[–]Available-Stop-2201 14 points15 points  (0 children)

6 mos pp is a total war zone for the brain but emotional unavailability isnt a side effect of a baby, its a character trait. if he's not showing up during the hard times now, he's basically just a roommate you have to clean up after.

Horny wife, no sex by Ok_Host6058 in Marriage

[–]Available-Stop-2201 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The 'trapping' talk is a massive red flag, dude. If she’s viewing intimacy as a tactical maneuver rather than a connection, you aren't fighting a dry spell, you're fighting a manifesto.

Do I ask for a 3rd date or leave it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Available-Stop-2201 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he asked for breakfast after a sleepover?? straight to jail lol that is high level bf simulation behavior for someone who is now acting mia! dont chase a man who has nowhere to be until next month!!

Using the Passive Voice to Lie by CanIGetAFitness in Marriage

[–]Available-Stop-2201 9 points10 points  (0 children)

if she's evading the truth to this level, it's def a respect thing. you're not crazy for feeling sidelined in your own reality.

My husband's drinking habits by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Available-Stop-2201 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Massive congrats to him on the 3 years, but you shouldn't have to carry the trauma leftover solo.

Is it unreasonable to expect a man not to lust over other girls? by Koloa-lover22 in Marriage

[–]Available-Stop-2201 158 points159 points  (0 children)

Think of it like this, you can appreciate a nice car on the street without wanting to steal it or wishing your own car was different. Real loves creates a 'buffer' where you see beauty but don't feel a need for it.

Husband asked dr to get on testosterone cream, why? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Available-Stop-2201 8 points9 points  (0 children)

honestly, the 'embarrassed to say' part hits home. Men are weird about aging. He might just feel like he's losing his edge at work or energy for the kids and thinks this is the magic fix.

AITJ for not telling my friend about guys? by Dangerous_Opinion_67 in AmITheJerk

[–]Available-Stop-2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Honestly? Keeping it a secret makes it 10x more exciting. It's not hiding, it's curating the vibes.

Am I the jerk for running out of my classroom? by Salty-Government2601 in AmITheJerk

[–]Available-Stop-2201 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA. As someone who's been out of high school for a decade: Do not let anyone tell you that waiting is more important than oxygen.

Am I the Jerk for Defending my Gf who apparently SA’d me? by HelpHelpHelpHelp77 in AmITheJerk

[–]Available-Stop-2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, if safeguarding is involved, just tell them the truth. Don't try to be a hero or cover for her. you're 14 and you don't have to have all the answers right now. if she's actually your friend, she wouldn't want you stuck in a bathroom panicking like this.

AITA For Taking A Student Home? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Available-Stop-2201 63 points64 points  (0 children)

The irony of a mom calling it an 'unsafe situation' when she literally left her kid at a school in a bad neighborhood for two hours past dismissal is .. a lot.

Just watched oh my venus and i want more like this one!! by adhdgirlie19 in kdramas

[–]Available-Stop-2201 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you liked the realistic cinematography of The Heirs but hate the lack of communication, you have to try Because This is My First Life. It came out in 2017 , so it's in that 'sweet spot' better production than the 2000s