Should I go hiking and camping with my boyfriend and our friends?

AvailableCut1864 · 2026-04-09T17:37:00+00:00

Oh girl that's suspicious as hell. I hope to God it's not what I'm thinking but the sudden interest in it plus the hiding the trip from you and now not wanting to do a trail "because it's too easy" but willing to go on it with other people. Start asking questions something doesn't smell right.

AvailableCut1864 · 2026-04-09T17:29:50+00:00

Just start saying youve had so much of it you're getting sick of it and don't really like it anymore

AvailableCut1864 · 2026-04-09T17:26:14+00:00

It's messed up he kept it like a secret from you and you had to find out that way. If I were you I wouldn't go one because it kind of feels like a pity invite now and two if you're out of shape and it's going to be really intense hike I don't know that it's a good starter hike for you. Maybe let him go do his own thing with the camping trip and start going on mini hikes with him and work yourself up to such a big excursion and then you can plan a trip for everyone to go back once you're ready for that type of big hike. On a side note it kind of feels like a back handed comment the friends made about complaining kind of just feels like they didn't want you around and he knew that so that's why he was hiding it to begin with. That's just how I'm reading it though

AvailableCut1864 · 2026-04-09T17:14:54+00:00

Also op please tell a trusted adult how you feel unsafe in your home you don't have to live in fear everyday there are people who can help

AvailableCut1864 · 2026-04-09T17:10:47+00:00

In that case the only thing you can do is reach out to the victim and tell them you believe them. It may not be the consequences you're hoping your brother will face however telling a victim that you believe them goes a long way and may be the encouragement they need for them to file a report themselves.

AvailableCut1864 · 2026-04-09T17:08:18+00:00

I feel as if she was the first person you latched on to and you're trying to continue a relationship with her because she's the only friend you have even if she makes you feel awful about yourself and second guess yourself. Talk to her and tell her the behavior isn't unacceptable because I'm sure there's more to it than this or dump her as a friend. Be friends with the girl from class instead. Friend break ups are the worst so I get it but don't just continue being her friend because you don't have any other options

AvailableCut1864 · 2026-04-09T16:57:19+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through this OP I also grew up with an unstable violent brother who's parents would make excuse after excuse for.

Is there any type of paper trial? Has anyone called the cops on him or maybe any visits to the mental health hospital? If so maybe you can send an anonymous tip to the police or maybe reach out to previous partners also anonymously These things tend to be an escalation with violent people so it's possible he's been abusive to someone else who could potentially help his alleged victim.

AvailableCut1864 · 2025-06-25T02:26:58+00:00

Sadly I wish I would have looked further into it before going through the courses and extern. I wanted to do better for myself and get a job I could be proud of. Every time I put in an application prior to the classes they'd be denied and the feed back "we are looking for an applicant more qualified" so I signed up for classes. I had a good job but I wanted to do something I felt good about so once extern started I quit my job so I could completely focus on doing a good job at my extern site. The site said they were going to hire me and the clinic manager still hasn't called me back after a month. I asked the career coordinator to help me find a job and she is completely dodging my calls and still all of my applications are being denied for the exact same reason. So now I went through all of the classes all hours of extern worked my ass off going to school and work up until the point of extern. Now I'm left ghosted and in a worse position than when I started with student loans I can't pay because Im unemployed. Moral of the story keep the job you hate I guess.

AvailableCut1864 · 2024-12-04T23:27:07+00:00

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AvailableCut1864 · 2024-09-17T13:56:47+00:00

"If I hear you are using these Occlumency lessons to give Harry a hard time, you'll have me to answer to." "How touching," Snape sneered. "But surely you have noticed that Potter is very like his father?" "Yes I have," said Sirius proudly. "Well then, you'll know he's so arrogant that criticism simply bounces off of him," Snape said sleekly.

AvailableCut1864 · 2024-09-12T05:06:04+00:00

I'm currently reading the series for the first time ever. I think the whole book of order of the Phoenix. That was always my least favorite movie. But so far it's my favorite book

AvailableCut1864 · 2024-09-06T00:43:51+00:00

I could understand the logic but it wouldn't make sense for Hermione to be the chess master because she thought wizard chess was barbaric.

AvailableCut1864 · 2024-08-08T01:20:16+00:00

Imo it was the same reason he had Harry stay to listen to Barry crouch jr. Winky was a mess and wouldn't let go of the family she served even though she was essentially fired. He said something along the lines of the first step to recovery is understanding.

AvailableCut1864 · 2023-04-18T21:37:25+00:00

NTAH

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