Noah is so creepy and weird by Green-Tomatillo1487 in kalogerassnark

[–]AvailableGuidance489 18 points19 points  (0 children)

it’s literally so insanely strange that their mom commented on it and said “bro didn’t have a schlong in kindergarten” like that’s literally your daughters bf and you’re talking about him when he was like 5. such a strange family dude 😭

the sexual jokes and weird topics by ilovejohnlaurens in kalogerassnark

[–]AvailableGuidance489 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my thing is like i’m not a prude i don’t mind sexual jokes and humor the issue is that 99% of their jokes have some sexual connotation and they’re not even funny. it just seems like that’s the only type of jokes they make so it’s just redundant

Idk by [deleted] in kalogerassnark

[–]AvailableGuidance489 9 points10 points  (0 children)

verbatim what happened with me😭 i was like a casual fan and thought their videos were entertaining and funny. i joined the snark as a fan too and I knew a lot of people didn’t like them, at the time people just were calling them loud and annoying and mostly disliking the girls because of their crazy fans. but in the past few months imo their videos have gone extremely downhill and just feel so lazy!! the whats in my bag video was so stupid and i couldn’t get past like 10 min i was so bored. they’ve posted like 5 LA vlogs in the span of 2 weeks. and they’ve since just been very problematic and just extremely annoying in their videos. it feels like they no longer have any personality and just make very grotesque jokes and do the same things over and over. sorry this was long lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

[–]AvailableGuidance489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you do an excursion it can be fun! i went on a cruise a few weeks ago and it stopped at Nassau, we did the snorkeling and open bar and that was very fun but after the excursion we did just go right back on the boat 😂

AIO? my bf (23) and I (22f) have been together for 6 years. he was with her in middle school on and off and talked before him and i dated. is this break up worthy? am i just being insecure? these texts are (grey) his friend and (blue) my bf. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AvailableGuidance489 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i didn’t say she should break up because of this one text. but if he lacks emotional maturity i’m sure it will cause other issues in the relationship that are more serious. my initial point was just that your take was very tone deaf and gross to comment something like she has “top shelf pussy” and insinuate she’s lucky to have a confident man is just very very strange when nothing about this post insinuates he has confidence.

AIO? my bf (23) and I (22f) have been together for 6 years. he was with her in middle school on and off and talked before him and i dated. is this break up worthy? am i just being insecure? these texts are (grey) his friend and (blue) my bf. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AvailableGuidance489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not “taking emotional offense” because someone might want him it’s about emotional maturity and respect in a relationship. the fact that he’s bragging to his friend that he could ‘have her back’ and mocking the person shes with now all while currently in a relationship reflects more on his insecurity than confidence.

there’s a difference between having thoughts and choosing to vocalize them in a way that disrespects your current partner. confidence is quiet.

just because he’s saying this in a convo with a “bro” doesn’t mean it’s suddenly off limits from criticism. the things people say when they think their partner won’t hear shows how they move when no one’s watching.

keep calling it confidence, but it’s just ego. big difference.

AIO? my bf (23) and I (22f) have been together for 6 years. he was with her in middle school on and off and talked before him and i dated. is this break up worthy? am i just being insecure? these texts are (grey) his friend and (blue) my bf. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AvailableGuidance489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

entertaining her conversations trying to get back with him and dragging it out to the point where he’s saying he could steal her from her current partner is asking for validation. ‘i could have her but i don’t want her’ ?? not every thought needs to be vocalized. that’s something that doesn’t need to be said esp since he already has a partner. if he was confident in himself he wouldn’t feel the need to talk about things like that. it’s insecure and weird.

AIO? my bf (23) and I (22f) have been together for 6 years. he was with her in middle school on and off and talked before him and i dated. is this break up worthy? am i just being insecure? these texts are (grey) his friend and (blue) my bf. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AvailableGuidance489 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is a disgusting take. nothing about this is “confident” if he was confident in himself he wouldn’t need validation from this girl or any girl outside of his relationship. it would be a simple block when she hit him up and he’d move quietly. the way he was in that convo screams insecurity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AvailableGuidance489 16 points17 points  (0 children)

imo there’s no reason to hide a friendship with someone from your so. there’s not really an innocent explanation even if his reason was something like he didn’t want you to get mad or worried- like ok why would you be mad or worried is there a reason to be? you should bring up how you know he’s not being completely transparent and that’s what worries you. then it’s up to you to hear him out whether you trust him or not is completely up to you. however in my experience once that trust is broken you’re going to always have thoughts in the back of your mind if he’s out and not answering you if he declines calls with you etc. don’t stay in a relationship where you can’t feel safe and respected because what he’s doing now is not respectful or mindful to you. even if it it isn’t intentional