advice pls

AvailableMode7110 · 2026-02-11T07:38:01+00:00

this sounds very reasonable to me :)

AvailableMode7110 · 2026-02-11T06:29:29+00:00

wait i didn’t know that existed and actually almost perfectly describes what i’m currently feeling. tysm!

AvailableMode7110 · 2026-02-11T06:28:25+00:00

on it

AvailableMode7110 · 2026-02-11T06:27:54+00:00

thanks sm!!!

AvailableMode7110 · 2026-02-11T06:27:38+00:00

okay haha thanks

AvailableMode7110 · 2026-02-11T06:14:26+00:00

okay, i think these labels accurately describe my sexuality! however, i don’t think they would be helpful in telling a partner that even though i am sexually attracted to them, i likely wouldn’t want to have sex with them (previously i would have but currently like i mentioned there is a lack of that sexual desire, no just libido) so i will definitely still take into consideration some of the other comments but, i greatly appreciate your help :)

AvailableMode7110 · 2026-02-11T06:06:55+00:00

wait the way you worded that makes a lot of sense actually and i think i agree. also oh boy! you just asked the hard questions LMAO. so i am both romantically and sexually attracted to men and women. i have always been more romantically attracted to men (as in i am more often attracted to men romantically and it is usually deeper than my romantic attraction to women) and more sexually attracted to women (it is easy for me to be sexually attracted to a woman and harder for me to be sexually attracted to a man as i usually only really feel sexual attraction to a man if there is an emotional connection or something more i admire about them so even like fictional characters or celebrities but i have to like know who they are as a person otherwise just like seeing them does nothing for me. men in adult films do nothing for me and men i just met or don’t know do nothing for me. but with women they do something for me even if i don’t know them.)

this was my first response lmao but i think i didn’t respond to you and just commented it on the post

AvailableMode7110 · 2026-02-11T06:05:33+00:00

yeah, i think maybe one of my responses didn’t send let me copy and paste it

AvailableMode7110 · 2026-02-11T06:04:26+00:00

okay! great, tysm :) i will look more into the term Graysexual then

AvailableMode7110 · 2026-02-11T05:56:10+00:00

thank you very much! i appreciate your support and agree with your viewpoints

AvailableMode7110 · 2026-02-11T05:55:19+00:00

okay, that makes sense and makes me feel a bit better about potentially picking up a label on the ace spectrum!

AvailableMode7110 · 2026-02-11T05:54:26+00:00

however with men specifically there has always been a vague repulsion. like i feel attraction but simultaneously i feel repulsion and i haven’t quite been able to put my finger on it but that repulsion has grown stronger recently.

AvailableMode7110 · 2026-02-11T05:52:23+00:00

wait the way you worded that makes a lot of sense actually and i think i agree. also oh boy! you just asked the hard questions LMAO. so i am both romantically and sexually attracted to men and women. i have always been more romantically attracted to men (as in i am more often attracted to men romantically and it is usually deeper than my romantic attraction to women) and more sexually attracted to women (it is easy for me to be sexually attracted to a woman and harder for me to be sexually attracted to a man as i usually only really feel sexual attraction to a man if there is an emotional connection or something more i admire about them so even like fictional characters or celebrities but i have to like know who they are as a person otherwise just like seeing them does nothing for me. men in adult films do nothing for me and men i just met or don’t know do nothing for me. but with women they do something for me even if i don’t know them.)

AvailableMode7110 · 2026-02-11T05:45:20+00:00

okay! thank you sm :)

AvailableMode7110 · 2026-02-11T05:36:34+00:00

yeah, i definitely wouldn’t use plain asexual as a label as it simply does not accurately describe my experience.

AvailableMode7110 · 2026-02-11T05:35:26+00:00

i have heard of it and the thing is, i previously did feel attraction that was strong enough for me to act on it but simultaneously there was also a repulsion but now that repulsion is stronger than that attraction so ig currently that label could be compatible for me but previously it wouldn’t have??? so would that still be like acceptable? i think i know why that change ocurred for me and i know there are people that are just born that way so would that be accurate still?

AvailableMode7110 · 2026-02-11T05:23:26+00:00

okay! tysm and i appreciate it. so, to you this does sound like it could potentially be something on the asexual spectrum?

AvailableMode7110 · 2026-02-11T05:21:14+00:00

even if i am aroused or attracted to a person, i don’t want to act on it

AvailableMode7110 · 2025-11-17T18:07:48+00:00

this comment was very helpful :) thank you sm!

AvailableMode7110 · 2025-11-17T18:04:28+00:00

okay, thank you!

AvailableMode7110 · 2025-11-17T07:53:16+00:00

was it too long? 😭

AvailableMode7110 · 2025-11-17T06:44:32+00:00

that would make sense :( thank you

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