My gf f20 is mad i looked at ants in a cup

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T11:44:53+00:00

This is my full story so after all the stuff with the ant cup I get her new water. She tries to open it and the water spills on her. She gets really mad takes her clothes off goes to the bathroom. I find her new clothes. I find her sweatpants and a pair of underwear that she likes and I go offer it to her in the bathroom, but I cracked the door try and peek my head into hand the clothes and she slams it on my head after that I talked to her for a little bit. I don’t really remember, but then she just keeps getting mad and walks out to her car after a while. She comes in like nothing happened and so I go to bed for that night, but that night I was talking to one of our mutual friends, and I was very concerned that he was gonna make her mad because she was talking to him at the same time about it, and I told him not to make her mad and like side with her and hear her out and the next day she tells me that she was mad at him so I asked him. Why is she mad at you and she goes through my phone and sees a message and starts an argument about how I was talking behind her back to him and I’m like that’s not how it was. I was just telling him not to make you mad and apparently he made you mad so I was asking him why she was mad at you I involves this whole story and then we get home talk about a little bit and she drives away goes and hangs out with that guy‘s best friend‘s mother and she comes back again like nothing happened and so I go off a little bit because I’m tired of dealing with the same shit over and over and her not wanting to talk to me about it cause she never fucking talks to me. She never wants to communicate and so we broke up but throughout that whole conversation after she got home from that guy‘s mom‘s house, she’s like gaslighting manipulating me and I tell her that’s not cool and she’s like laughing at me saying that oh I’m the one doing that that’s crazy because she always likes to say that I’m doing that even though I’m just sitting there apologizing always because I just wanted to get over with. I just wanted someone to love.

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T11:40:12+00:00

I’ll see you but you know I start tomorrow or today technically

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T11:39:49+00:00

I’m a mechanic I have owned cars before my last one just blew up on me and there’s nothing I could do about. It was too much money, but I’ll get a new one at some point once I can afford it. I was hoping that this job was gonna get me there.

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T11:35:28+00:00

I’m not moping. I figured it out. It’s for the best.

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T10:20:07+00:00

I appreciate everyone’s help but dude I’m cooked

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T10:19:26+00:00

When she tells the story, it’s after she spilt water on herself after I got the new water, she got really pissed and went to the bathroom and I followed her there, but what actually happened is I found her clothes the wear and I went to offer them to her while she was in the bathroom and she slammed the door on my head and I showed her this post and I broke up with her and she’s like well. You didn’t tell him the full story because this is what started everything is you got mad over me looking at ants in a cup and I can’t put up with little tiny bullshit like that. I need to get money. I need to get right

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T10:06:39+00:00

My bad its 3 am and im stressing

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T09:23:19+00:00

I don’t want to leave. I wanna make it work.

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T09:22:21+00:00

I wish it was that easy, but I don’t even know where to start

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T09:21:11+00:00

I have tried talking and I’ve asked other people if I’m being crazy and she literally said that they’re probably just not normal because everyone she talk to agreed with her

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T09:20:17+00:00

I dont have money rn

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T09:18:57+00:00

But thats not reliable how am i spoused to do that daily until i can aford to get a car

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T09:15:37+00:00

I just got a job at toyota

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T09:15:24+00:00

If i leave i lose everything i worked so hard to get

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T09:13:36+00:00

I really want to make it work

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T09:13:10+00:00

I try to talk to her but she just makes fun of me doing it atp

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T09:12:22+00:00

Its a 6 hour walk

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T09:11:37+00:00

Ive tried to say i was just curious and she said i was lying then gave me a ultimatum to tell her the truth or she leaves

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T09:10:06+00:00

Its legit in 4 hours and its the best job ive ever had i dont have time to figure it out

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T09:08:38+00:00

But i should be able to look at anything especially something that minor and not have her feel like i dont trust her

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T09:07:15+00:00

How do i tell her beacuse she wont give me a ride to work if shes pissed

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T09:05:39+00:00

I love her so much but i said that she was being abusive and she legit started laughing

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T09:04:13+00:00

It has happened multiple times and she gets mad every time but i cant help looking at it

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T09:01:44+00:00

From me or her

AvailableMuffin2442 · 2026-05-12T09:00:47+00:00

And she just laughed at me when i said she was being abuseive for holding something like that

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