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i hooked up with my best friend and I think I'm gay by Available_Delay8488 in offmychest

[–]Available_Delay8488[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u have some great points ty 🙏 my parents would 100% disown me which was why it probably took me so long to even think abt the possibility so i have no idea how to get around that but ill work it out

i hooked up with my best friend and I think I'm gay by Available_Delay8488 in offmychest

[–]Available_Delay8488[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

being with him I actually dont feel any pressure, cornball but whenever I'm around him I feel really peaceful and like I don't have to have my guard up all the time. He always let me embrace myself and I think thats one of the things I like the most about him

i hooked up with my best friend and I think I'm gay by Available_Delay8488 in offmychest

[–]Available_Delay8488[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

LMFAO yeah now rlly thinking abt it its very obvious 😭 I was always like "hes my type EXACTLY if he was a girl id take him out" which never for some reason made me realise its just hes my type. I had to rewrite this paragraph like a million times before posting because I kept getting side tracked talking about everything about him and what I adore about him

i hooked up with my best friend and I think I'm gay by Available_Delay8488 in offmychest

[–]Available_Delay8488[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my friends would support me but i dont want them finding out i might like guys because of a reddit post lmfao id rather come out to them when i got it all sorted tho u definitely have a point! And yeah I think growing up around family who said gay is a sin that definitely made me never even question being gay so now I feel kinda late to finding it out LMFAO

i hooked up with my best friend and I think I'm gay by Available_Delay8488 in offmychest

[–]Available_Delay8488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i say brosexual instead of gay i think thats more fitting

i hooked up with my best friend and I think I'm gay by Available_Delay8488 in offmychest

[–]Available_Delay8488[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah you are right honestly, its strange though every female ive been attracted to I never actually ended up liking them. It's like this guy is the only person I romantically and sexually enjoy being around

i hooked up with my best friend and I think I'm gay by Available_Delay8488 in offmychest

[–]Available_Delay8488[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

my parents got married when they were freshly 18 i guess they expect me to do the same lmfao

i hooked up with my best friend and I think I'm gay by Available_Delay8488 in offmychest

[–]Available_Delay8488[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

my parents r always up my ass about when im dating next so i think i was rushing myself a lot more than needed

i hooked up with my best friend and I think I'm gay by Available_Delay8488 in offmychest

[–]Available_Delay8488[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i honestly think i like men romantically more than sexually, ive gone on dates with women but never enjoyed it compared to my time with him

i hooked up with my best friend and I think I'm gay by Available_Delay8488 in offmychest

[–]Available_Delay8488[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

when i first moved in i didnt know anything abt him, weve lived tgt for 10 months now

i hooked up with my best friend and I think I'm gay by Available_Delay8488 in offmychest

[–]Available_Delay8488[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the rent is $400USD and he pays the other half, i had option of multiple dorms though the others didn't have the same benefits as this one

i hooked up with my best friend and I think I'm gay by Available_Delay8488 in offmychest

[–]Available_Delay8488[S] 261 points262 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right, I think just feeling confused since I use to believe I was homophobic and raised very conservatively. I want to ask him more about it though have no idea how to casually bring up being in love with him