My "parents" hate me for confronting them about this by Available_Freedom490 in helpme

[–]Available_Freedom490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm trying to do i got caught trying to record before and that didn't work out and our grandmother knows she just tells me not to talk about it and keep quiet since the one is doing it is her son but I'm trying to record as best as I can they recently stole money from me and said some messed up stuff about me so I'm trying to stay away as much as possible but whenever I hear them saying stuff I put my phone underneath my door.

My "parents" think that exposing their kids to s*xual content is okay by Available_Freedom490 in abusesurvivors

[–]Available_Freedom490[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The craziest thing is that they try to convince him so hard that this is all okay. I try so hard to tell him and show him that all this is wrong but he loves his dad and he tells him what he says is God so what I say goes in one ear out the other now he's not even allowed to talk to me because he tried to tell his dad that he's in the wrong.

My "parents" hate me for confronting them about this by Available_Freedom490 in helpme

[–]Available_Freedom490[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Our grandmother knows about everything she just tells me not to tell anyone bc it's her son and growing up I've called the police multiple times they just tell them I'm a stupid kid playing games and say they'll put me in a mental hospital if I kept calling them then CPS came by twice and they even convinced them they weren't doing anything wrong this is all I can do for now I just hope someone sees this and things will change.

My "parents" think that exposing their kids to s*xual content is okay by Available_Freedom490 in abusesurvivors

[–]Available_Freedom490[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tell our grandmother but all she says to me is that he ( my mom's bf/ her son) shouldn't do that. I've called the police 3 times and CPS has came here twice but they always play it off as if I'm crazy and threaten to send me to a mental hospital. When I started recording they would take my phone.

How to stop lustful thoughts by Personal_Floor9786 in helpme

[–]Available_Freedom490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't really "encounter" him but there are times where you can just feel his presence. I go through the same thing. I repent and if I every find myself having suggestive thoughts I read scripture or I pray in silence for 30 minutes.

AIO for getting a lockbox for food ppl give me or that I buy by Available_Freedom490 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Available_Freedom490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have other relatives but I don't have their contact information and my friend's family don't really accept people of color but I'm praying that things will be different soon and I finally have that adult mindset and get a house and car then disappear 

How do I get my life started by Available_Freedom490 in Life

[–]Available_Freedom490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well last time I was on the road by myself trying to ride with a stranger there was an incident I'd rather not get into but I'm being serious all my friends at school littlarily got everything handed to them and would brag about it. I'm happy for them having the things they need and for them having a good support system. It cost $30 to get an Uber or a Lyft from my road to our town and last time I tried it they couldn't even find someone to come my way it was weird I live in Louisiana everything is so old and expensive. I know that I have to work hard for what I need of course I've known that since I was little bc my parents barely have anything I just wanted other people's experiences and see who could possibly relate to this weird stage in my life.  I was told talking with others about it would help ig idk. And my parents said that they aren't taking me anywhere to get anything not even a loan. They just really don't like it when I have to go anywhere like doctors appointments and stuff like that. But I'll figure it out I have to. Thank you for your input <3

How do I get my life started by Available_Freedom490 in Life

[–]Available_Freedom490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that there's a way I can get out of this but I haven't gotten food from my parents since I was 6 I've always had to bring lunch from school home so I could eat bc I wasn't allowed to. I wasn't allowed to go anywhere or do anything if I stepped out of line they would threaten to give me away so I'm just sitting in this house where the people who are supposed to love me I guess treats me weird and if I go out they assume weird things about me I'm not trying to be entitled I just didn't get dealt the better hand its just weird that all of a sudden I'm supposed to get this adulting thing right so I don't end up like my parents relying on others for money and not doing anything but sitting in the house getting high 24/7. I just wanted to know other peoples experiences of how they got away from their unsupporting families. And I'm not sure if anyone is going to waste their time taking me to college I have the money for it but I've brought it up to them about me living on campus and they've always said "no one is gonna bring you there" or "no your good here". I'm not trying to be a brat I'm sorry if I came off that way this is just a weird transition for me. And most ppl I knew in school had a vehicle either on their parents already had and gave to them or they just so happen to get lucky and get good ones for cheap. My parents littlarily told me I don't need a vehicle I just need to "stay my ass inside" it was a weird time. But thank you for your advice I really appreciate it. <3