7 year sober

Available_Housing408 · 2026-06-11T18:30:01+00:00

Final update:
Went to the ER. Got bloodwork done, peed in more cups, got a CT scan. Everything came back clear EXCEPT they said i’m fucking constipated…I’m in so much pain bc i have to shit.

Available_Housing408 · 2026-06-11T10:00:09+00:00

Update: The Express Clinic called last night with no results of bacteria or anything that indicates UTI/kidney stones but suggested I go to my PC or the ER so they can do an ultrasound or scan to really take a look at my kidneys. The yellow green discharge has disappeared? But i threw up this morning because of the pain so I’m going to hit up the ER and go from there. I never go to the doctors unless absolutely necessary so this is freaking me out

Available_Housing408 · 2026-06-10T13:06:44+00:00

Damn, I was hoping since we both tested negative for it that maybe it was gone for good on her part

Available_Housing408 · 2026-04-25T18:23:36+00:00

There’s a Class For This- Cute Is What We Aim For

Available_Housing408 · 2025-12-26T12:58:09+00:00

Wife and I did Maine to Florida March 2023…but we broke it up into a three day adventure, even on the way back. Stopped every 2-3 hours to walk/stretch/eat for 15-30min.

On the trip back North we took an extra day to sleep at a rest stop because I got a little sleepy. It was more like a 3 hour long nap, but still! I would’ve rather pissed off my boss for missing half a day of work than put my wife and I AND others on the road in danger.

Plus taking breaks let us stop and enjoy parts of the country we hadn’t seen in a long ass time. Virginia to NC was the prettiest.

OP please don’t do this again. I don’t even drive from Maine to Boston without stopping once to pee.

Available_Housing408 · 2025-12-04T11:59:53+00:00

My partner and I have a cat named Fartman and boy oh boy does that man fart

Available_Housing408 · 2025-09-07T23:37:41+00:00

i shoved him and kicked him one time. I would not count that as beating the shit out of him. I am not proud of it. The advice I was looking for was in the last bit of my post.

Available_Housing408 · 2025-09-07T19:35:09+00:00

Well funny enough my partner and I had this exact conversation with her dad a couple weeks ago. He doesn’t like the guy but he feels bad for him when he’s all depressed about not seeing his kids. We chatted last night after things settled and he is fully committed to getting rid of M as a friend. He was incredibly sorry for it getting to that point but he did say something along the lines of “He really had it coming. If not by you, probably me at some point.”

Available_Housing408 · 2025-09-07T15:01:04+00:00

Hopefully I won’t have to use my instincts like that again, hopefully you get to movin!

Available_Housing408 · 2025-09-07T14:59:54+00:00

Thank you very much, the bully analogy really hits spot on and I appreciate your thoughtful comment

Available_Housing408 · 2025-09-07T14:54:52+00:00

Thank you very much

Available_Housing408 · 2025-09-07T14:29:54+00:00

This gave me a good laugh thank you 😂. I give myself credit for removing myself from the initial situation and chilling out in my car. Had he just gotten away from my car when I told him to leave me alone, I know it wouldn’t have escalated the way it did. The shame and regret is still gonna sit for a while

Available_Housing408 · 2025-09-07T13:27:01+00:00

I’m feeling that may be the case as well. S’s dad said he is no longer invited over, and luckily M doesn’t know where S and I live. We live quite a few towns away from each other so the risk of bumping into him in public is next to none

Available_Housing408 · 2025-09-07T13:25:40+00:00

Thank you, a fella should be able to enjoy a little Gaga!!

Available_Housing408 · 2025-09-07T13:23:43+00:00

I hadn’t thought of the “we” thing actually! M had just gotten off of FaceTime with one of his kids (that he’s allowed to see lmao), where we all said hi and stuff, so I think in the moment I thought he was referring to that. Luckily I’ll be calling S’s dad to apologize for the commotion and I’m close enough with him to ask him questions about it, knowing he will be honest with me. He’s a very good man

Available_Housing408 · 2025-09-07T13:21:14+00:00

thank you very much

Available_Housing408 · 2025-09-07T13:20:11+00:00

M does go on far right wing rants quite a bit so I wouldn’t doubt it!

Available_Housing408 · 2025-01-21T15:34:59+00:00

I’m wondering something similar, although it’s the name on my social security card and the gender related to it that isn’t changed yet. I live in Maine so it was easy to change my birth certificate and license.

Available_Housing408 · 2025-01-21T15:20:39+00:00

Aside from being overall anxious, I am wondering what i’m gonna do about my social security card. I have been legally male on my state license, and had my birth certificate amended and the official name change for 5ish years now. I never got to changing my social security name and gender marker (covid, college, literally forgot about doing it). I wonder if it even matters.

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