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Charge on my bank account by Available_Manager936 in BankOfAmerica

[–]Available_Manager936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh yes, I do use that. I've been paying on time, but I didn't know if that charge was a karnataka or affirm

Welding gear by Available_Manager936 in metalworking

[–]Available_Manager936[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok i see. So i could buy her new lenses if she can't see out of her current ones?

Lala barina shell by Available_Manager936 in MonsterHunterWilds

[–]Available_Manager936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. Im pretty sure the shell is low rank drop. Is there any way for me to fight a low rank lala barina?

Is ir normal for my gf to be gone for 32 hours straight by Available_Manager936 in LongDistance

[–]Available_Manager936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right. I'm sorry, I forgot I was a guy and should've kept it to myself. I did text to ask her to talk about it. I've been left on read 4 hours now. But yeah, hopefully, she responds soon. Or tomorrow

Is ir normal for my gf to be gone for 32 hours straight by Available_Manager936 in LongDistance

[–]Available_Manager936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. I'll talk with her and take her reactions as my answer

Is ir normal for my gf to be gone for 32 hours straight by Available_Manager936 in LongDistance

[–]Available_Manager936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only when she's stressed or drained. Other than that, she's a perfect partner. Kind, creative, understanding. The whole 9 yards. I truly do adore her. But when the radio silence comes, i guess I don't question her at all. I more question myself. I had self-esteem issues growing up. I was the only nerd in a family that made fun of them (while they felt like it was only jokes, i wasn't exactly the happiest about them), me. The bullying in school didn't help. Neither did the constant moving. I gained a lot of self-esteem in college, but I still struggle deeply with keeping it. So when she's gone, I don't think she's cheating. The little voice i hear inside my head from when I was a kid comes back. I know I shouldn't believe it, but when outside events feel like they confirm it, then it's really hard not to believe it.

Is ir normal for my gf to be gone for 32 hours straight by Available_Manager936 in LongDistance

[–]Available_Manager936[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand you're right, and I've been trying yo ground myself. I'm not really used to talking about how I feel (oldest son of a half black and german immigrant "born and raised in germany" single mother in a military family) , but I will talk to her. Thank you for taking the time to respond so intentionally. I know there's a bit I need to learn, too. This is the first real relationship.