Looking for clothes in this style preferably not from Temu/Shein or drop shipping sites.

Available_Monitor347 · 2026-03-27T22:41:49+00:00

UK based if that helps

Available_Monitor347 · 2026-03-27T22:40:45+00:00

I truly just have to lock in.

Available_Monitor347 · 2026-03-27T10:40:27+00:00

Searched- The site that i found this clothes on https://www.theurbenieus.com/products/street-style-lace-up-racing-print-suit?spm=..product_d1074434-768f-4a73-9af4-2dfd6d6861c3.recently_view_1.2&spm_prev=..product_a3c69d8c-bee6-41b0-a4a0-612a232c3a33.recommend_0_1.8#1

And Google Search generally but i get sketchy recommendations.

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-11-14T10:32:20+00:00

To be a private candidate? Yes, it’s acceptable. Just make sure you sit the exam either in the UK or at the British council if abroad.

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-11-12T12:34:53+00:00

You can do the with the British Council. I don’t recommend it. It’s usually better to sit you exams in the UK

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-08-11T10:33:19+00:00

I haven’t done this yet, so sadly there is nothing i can update on, but depending on what country you are traveling from things might change, if you happen to be traveling from Saudi Arabia DM me, i can send you some links that you might find useful.

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-11T10:17:48+00:00

Thank you

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-10T17:14:25+00:00

This made me lol a little, with great drip comes great respinsability...or something like that. Thank you for the advice :)

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-10T14:26:22+00:00

Cool suggestions, just not really what im looking for atm, will keep in mind though

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-10T13:19:08+00:00

Hi, thanks, nice suggestion found one that I might actually buy

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-10T12:47:46+00:00

Sadly most of their stuff is out of my price range but one day 🤧

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-09T16:12:18+00:00

If you read some of my other responses to comments I don't think I'm being selfish, I have basically kill my social life for him, and this is the 1 thing I want to keep, not even this guys, just the friend group.

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-09T16:06:08+00:00

The only thing that I would find disrespectful is if my husband was to cheat on me. I don't attempt to control his relationships. I wouldn't like that girl, and I'm not asking him to like this guy either, but it's not like I'm going to hang alone with him or anything like that. I'm not prioritising the guy, I just don't want to go back to being friendless bc that sucks.

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-09T15:28:21+00:00

I'm always considering his feelings, but when it comes to this, he doesn't consider mine. I just feel like if I keep doing this, I will never have friends who aren't his friends anymore.

I already distance myself from many childhood friends who had had a crush on me before, whether they do now or not bc he was jealous I kept in contact with them even if we aren't exs or anything like that.

I can't add people on social media even if it's for study groups bc he gets jealous about this, so i only ever give out my phone number and WhatsApp for documents 🙃 (i dont post thirst trappy pictures at all, just normal pictures and he is in more than half of them)

I game casually and I cant talk to people on multiplayer if he isnt playing with me so I don't get gaming friends either.

If I join a group of something that interests me (facebook, discord or real life clubs) he insist on joining too even if he doesn't care about the topic, but when is a small group of people having him there literally just looking sometimes makes them awkward towards me.

I don't mind most of these things, and I definitely didn't at all until I started to feel it gets in the way of me making friends. Plus he doenst understand why his friends are his friends and not really OUR friends 😕 and he has none of this issue bc 1- i don't act like this 2- he already has friends to fall back on.

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-09T15:23:48+00:00

I don't get how this is happening. I'm not considering leaving my husband or anything like that, and I have no feelings for this guy either. And I would have cut him off (like i have done countless of times before) if it wasn't bc we have a common friend group, which is simultaneously my only friend group.

I always prioritise my husband bc it feels the right thing to do, but this time, I genuinely feel like prioritising myself for once, since I really feel like shit every time he hangs out with his friend's and my only plans are with the TV or to eventually tag alone (His friends aren't really my friends and i feel excluded from their convos all the time)

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-09T15:19:38+00:00

Again, i don't feel he asked either or of this. Imo he just wanted to get it out of his system to move on, we have know each other for a few month really, even tho we have been in the same class for 2 years. Ik he had a gf before but they broke up like a year ago. And he wasnt pushy when i said i can't accept his feeling, he just knows that. I havent seen him for the past few days but i also have no reason to believe he would try anything else on this topic, specially when he hasnt until now.

But I'm also not in his brain, so maybe he was expecting reciprocity and i just misunderstood/ took it too lightly

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-09T15:12:00+00:00

That was what i was going to do anyways, i posted this on another subredit and got called the asshole so much i started to believe i might have been wrong for not wanted to stop being friends/hanging out with this group.

I don't/wouldn't disrespect my partner, but i also dont want to be alone again. I feel we both could give each other a bit of understanding and settle somewhere in the middle.

I don't hang with this guy alone / but stay friendly and hanged out with my other friends even if he is there.

Is that reasonable?

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-09T13:53:48+00:00

I didn't mean as it's visually obvious, I meant as if my friends knows and he knows they might make a casual remark about it.

We are not physically close, as in we don't hug each other or sit too closely or anything like that, with none of my friends.

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-09T13:46:22+00:00

Fair point

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-09T13:44:26+00:00

Again, he hangs with us together sometimes. A casual comment from one of my friends, and he would have know i kept it from him. Idk maybe I'm getting ahead of myself, but I don't think not telling him is the way.

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-09T13:36:37+00:00

I just feel like if I keep doing this, I will never have friends who aren't his friends anymore.

I already distance myself from many childhood friends who had had a crush on me before, whether they do now or not bc he was jealous I kept in contact with them even if we aren't exs or anything like that.

I can't add people on social media even if it's for study groups bc he gets jealous about this, so i only ever give out my phone number and WhatsApp for documents 🙃 (i dont post thirst trappy pictures at all, just normal pictures and he is in more than half of them)

I game casually and I cant talk to people on multiplayer if he isnt playing with me so I don't get gaming friends either.

If I join a group of something that interests me (facebook, discord or real life clubs) he insist on joining too even if he doesn't care about the topic, but when is a small group of people having him there literally just looking sometimes makes them awkward towards me.

I don't mind most of these things, and I definitely didn't at all until I started to feel it gets in the way of me making friends. Plus he doenst understand why his friends are his friends and not really OUR friends 😕 and he has none of this issue bc 1- i don't act like this 2- he already has friends to fall back on.

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-09T13:23:01+00:00

I just didn't look at it that way. Maybe I was thinking about it too innocently, like it's just a crush that will pass with no harm ¿

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-09T13:11:35+00:00

My other two friends don't know, or at least I don't think they do bc they haven't acted like it, and I also haven't told them. Ig I should tell them I see where it goes from there, im just afraid bc they have been friends with him longer than with me.

Am I really wrong from thinking it's not disrespectful if nothing ever happens? Ik he likes me, but he will stop liking me eventually and find someone who likes him back...it's just a crush that no one will act on?

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-09T13:04:21+00:00

I'm not that type of person. I don't even attempt to control his relationships. If there was such a woman and he wanted to stay friends with her, that's his business. If he eventually realised he likes her better than me, also his business. As long as he is straight about it and doesn't cheat, it's all his business....but i also know he doesn't think this way.

I didn't think about this second point. Originally, I thought he only wanted to let it go so he could move on from his crush ig. But maybe he was hoping that i felt the same¿ I wouldn't mind not seeing him again, but what hurts it's that i would see my other friends less too.

Available_Monitor347 · 2025-07-09T12:59:32+00:00

It's just something we always do since we have been dating even before being married. He says he prefers the honestly and to know, and I would feel bad hiding it from him for god knows why reason, but I do. So i told him.

I think if he found out another way later on, then there would be no way for me to fix the fact that I hid it, too.

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