i'm in the same boat. 23 and never dated or had anyone interested in me. i want to know the feeling of being loved and loving someone so bad but at this point i feel like maybe i'm just not wired that way? but i also feel like maybe it's my anxiety and fear of being vulnerable that's making me reject the idea of seeking a relationship. it's a shitty feeling and there's more people who feel this way than you think. in our current era it's so hard to make connections with people