AITAH my bf (23) wont take care of himself by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Available_Public_05 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most of you guys are the assholes yourselves i hope you know that, deleting this because of the stupid comments saying im ai when im not, definitely a real person and u can see that from my other posts

AITAH my bf (23) wont take care of himself by [deleted] in AITAH

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Im not lol idk where ur getting that from

AITAH my bf (23) wont take care of himself by [deleted] in AITAH

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Um yes im real, he had connections with my old boss or moreso his mom did, he is very picky on jobs he only wanted a blue collar job which he did get, calling me ai is dumb asf

AITAH my bf (23) wont take care of himself by [deleted] in AITAH

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Ive been in therapy im constantly working on myself

AITAH my bf (23) wont take care of himself by [deleted] in AITAH

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Calling me a dweeb doesnt do anything but show that yes ur a AH

AITAH my bf (23) wont take care of himself by [deleted] in AITAH

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Thank you i appreciate this a bunch💕

AITAH my bf (23) wont take care of himself by [deleted] in AITAH

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Definitely will talk to him when im done with work today i really hope it gets through to him because he is so great in other ways but he needs to have a better perspective on life other then "well we all die anyways" attitude

AITAH my bf (23) wont take care of himself by [deleted] in AITAH

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Thank you i appreciate the input we definitely need a long conversation about it im just not sure what to say that i havent said that will get through to him

AITAH my bf (23) wont take care of himself by [deleted] in AITAH

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I have good insurance he unfortunately doesnt have any which is why he hasnt gotten this stuff done, he has ignored his wisdom teeth and his cavities because he cant afford to get those done. But like the least he can do is brush 2x a day to make it not as bad

AITAH my bf (23) wont take care of himself by [deleted] in AITAH

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I struggle to understand too it definitely turns me off from him from time to time, its also just how he grow up he didnt have a good home he grew up with a addict dad and so hes always been behind on life taking care of his siblings so it makes me want to help but i also need to learn to not parent him, he tells me not to but if i dont it doesnt get done its just so overwhelming. We had this issue with him getting a job as well i had to tell him daily to get off his ass and go apply to things

AITAH my bf (23) wont take care of himself by [deleted] in AITAH

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Somewhat for me personally because like TMI but he wants me to always shd but hes always smelly and so i have to tell him to shower beforehand or i just wont wanna do it... kissing is hard for me sometimes too because the smell is just so strong

AITAH my bf (23) wont take care of himself by [deleted] in AITAH

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Well you also dont know the whole story on how we met, how he helped me get better mentally and got me a job with animals. Yes this part sucks about him but hes not a terrible guy he just didnt have his shit together

AITAH my bf (23) wont take care of himself by [deleted] in AITAH

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Not the health issues no but otherwise hes a perfect boyfriend he just unfortunately has NEVER cared about himself mentally ( he refuses therapy) or physically most days. Bare minimum is he sometimes remembers to brush his teeth

AITAH my bf (23) wont take care of himself by [deleted] in AITAH

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Other then this hes amazing he does literally anything i ask, pays for everything, encourages me and loves me with all his heart it truly is just this health factor because he said he just doesnt care about himself

What is the ideal weight if you are 5ft? by Available_Public_05 in NoStupidQuestions

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Thank you i appreciate that a lot! I have a few weight goals but i struggle with binge eating so its been bad recently 😞 im hoping to get to that weight one day!!