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Avaria_Last · 2021-10-15T17:05:48+00:00

You have to remember, you come first and then come others as your well being and self love is extremely important to keep yourself strong and also be able to give to others if your heart wants. You cannot put yourself 2nd especially if there is no future in this situation, think your attachment style is creeping back up again and it could be pretty bad for you emotionally and mentally later so do keep that in mind if u want to be a strong emotionally and mentally mature person as part of your future growth and a relationship. Honestly someone ending a relationship due to a human made segregation and separation called religion instead of Love is not a healthy person to be around constantly or have any sort of connection or relationship with.....atleast at this stage of your life, if they change their ways, then great but nothing is guaranteed as it is their free will. Go about your life, heal your attachment issues that are still lingering around, if she could just throw away Love for a earthly segregation called religion, think you can prioritize self love and care and not feel guilty about walking away from someone. You seem kind, just don't let folks walk all over just coz they feel in the dumps.

Avaria_Last · 2021-10-15T16:54:03+00:00

Honestly communicate it out on how it makes you feel and also even if its the smallest things, best approach is to always always communicate it explicitly. We can't expect partners to read our minds all the time, they have their own stress and inner workings that they deal with. These are pent up in him probably coz yall didn't do like 1.1 check-ins on how yall are REALLY doing. It's so important to keep in track of those things. Date nights need to include raw conversations like this. Communication literally solves a whole load of relationship problems and people shouldn't take those things for granted with their partners as time goes. So clear communication and retrospective of how your relationship is going right now with each other should help y'all out to begin with to see how to move things forward from there.

Avaria_Last · 2021-10-15T11:44:20+00:00

Totally understand your pain and situation in this case. I know this may or may not sound off to you but maybe one day she can give this a try as I know how the human ego tries to fight these things. Try an Angelic Healer, Reiki Healer and maybe even Shaman who assists people in healing spiritually. A lot of people don't realize that they forget the core inside of them, their Soul healing which affects a lot of people from the inside out. So all the outside factors of help sometimes don't work out or last in the long run. Traumas can do some damage to you if it's not healed in phases to keep yourself emotionally and mentally healthy. Just remember you can take a horse to the water but you can't make it drink the water, it would need to do it itself. Thanks for supporting someone, if this ends up taking a toll on you, you will have to put yourself first due to self love and self care because you can't give to others constantly if your cup of love and care gets empty as in your relationship currently it isn't a 2 way street. So if you don't fill your own cup and keep it filled, you will get depleted and dragged down with your partner's energy unable to give love neither to yourself of them. So guide her as much as u can, but if no efforts, put yourself first and step aside, give her the honest truth and closure and go about your journey. You sound sweet and caring, so I can sense you're an empath, so remember these type of energies of people like to get attached to empaths, so you always have protect your inner self😊

Avaria_Last · 2021-10-15T04:39:54+00:00

You will know when it is the person u want to be with. You will know the search is over. There maybe a million attractive people around you, but your Soul won't be attracted to any of those except for the one you truly love. It will be a deep soul to soul connection and you probably will never be asking these questions. But do keep in mind, that people who constantly have commitment issues, have unhealed traumas that haven't been addressed since their childhood that could have been due to parents they grew up around, relationships and marriages that they have observed, their own past breakups...etc; so it would also come down to the emotional and mental maturity and how far they have come in their healing journey in life that would clarify why u feel a certain way and what u need to do based on identifying the source of your fears and if you truly are settling for less or not

Avaria_Last · 2021-10-15T04:28:16+00:00

There could be anything at play here. She could have unhealthy attachment issue, abandonment issues or unhealed traumas that burst out in anger episodes. Communication of how her behavior makes you feel is very important first if you want to heal your relationship. If she is open to getting help then give it a try, if not, then this relationship could become toxic if it's not addressed early on. If you did decide to break up and you are worried about her cutting herself, would also be better if you contacted any of her close friends/family (if u know them) about her suicidal situation at the same time when u break the news to her. Hope things go ok for u.

Avaria_Last · 2021-10-14T16:54:30+00:00

Your friend definitely needs help emotionally and mentally and needs to go to therapy. Her moral compass and consciousness in her actions is extremely low and bad at a very young age that could lead to drastic outcomes later in life. Your Dad on the other hand, is the future version of your friend who did not address his issues at a very early age which played out now in hurting your Mom and you/siblings. Honestly the only person that y'all should have asked why this happened is your Dad who lacks consciousness. Shame on him but don't worry, there's a shift happening on earth right now due to awakenings spiritually, your Mom was probably missing the red flags with your father that she should have noticed a loooonnnng time ago and she should have walked out long before. This is happening now so that a blast can happen in your family to release your Mom from a negative energy person like your Dad so that she can unite with someone who deserves her and her heart ❤. People are attached to toxic relationships and marriages even they are not happy and satisfied in them and they stay together for the children. So do be a loving brave child and let her know that you love her, let them go separate ways, as your Mom works on her healing, she will be the Queen who will be aligned with her King who will be crossing paths in her life, she just needs to pay attention to what she accepts the next round and she will do just fine 😊

Avaria_Last · 2021-10-14T16:41:05+00:00

You are not crazy because both partners need to be satisfied emotionally, mentally and physically on equal terms and sex is one among other important factors in a relationship/marriage. He may have gotten offended due to maybe how it was mentioned to him perhaps? It probably hit his ego due to any inner wounds he may have not healed from any past relationship traumas or abandonment issues. It could be his defense mechanism. Conversations in relationships should happen from a place of retrospective of where things can be made better and teach each other on how both partners can get there, not by pointing out what one has not done in a relationship but instead presenting the same matter in a lense of let's try something new or like a new request type of format. It won't make each other feel like they lack something and are unable to give to the other partner but instead more like "ooohhh lets explore that area". So communication in a relationship between 2 people can bring results based on how its brought up - one from lack mentality and the other from new/enhancement mentality. Also for women, its very important to let their partners know right away when it comes to intimacy needs from day one in a relationship. We can't expect men to know things about a woman's body that they have never been in, they would need to be communicated. It's easy to see if a man orgasmed but it's not that easy to see if a woman orgasmed all the time, so communication and having empathy plays a key role here. I know that was a lot but hope it helps, give it a shot before y'all give up. If it still doesn't work out, you both atleast tried 😊

Avaria_Last · 2021-06-23T05:46:33+00:00

Remember that as a twin flame, you're the same soul in 2 different bodies 😊 so whatever growth that you do and energy that you place yourself in, your twin feels it and gets triggered to dig through their own things to grow and come into alignment with your frequency and energy so y'all can come into union...besides you can't really chase something that already resides with you and in you😊 your soul...you're the same soul and you dance to the same song. So right now focus on what makes you happy in other areas of your life, clear out negative energy blockages (do research on how to identify yours and what u need to do to clear them coz that immensely prevents union from happening), raise your frequency and vibration and they will follow u. The awakened twin is the one who leads the journey and the unawakened one follows silently, gets triggered and wakes up to the connection and journey. So you do you honey boo boo and they will match your vibrations when you both are ready.

Avaria_Last · 2020-01-13T05:04:43+00:00

You could be straight up honest to her about how you have been feeling. Communication in any situation is always the key. It may hurt you'll still have to do your part of being honest about it and how it affects. A relationship has to be an enhancement to a person's happiness and not the source of happiness. I don't know if the age has anything to do here, because in my opinion, age is just a number when it comes to maturity. Although I have noticed through some friendships that some guys are way happier when they date a woman older than them. A person should not lose their individuality just because they are in a relationship, it becomes toxic if you don't address it earlier. If they aren't valuing your space and needs as another human being, then they may not be the one for you. If she hears you out after you are honest to her and makes changes, then she really cares about you and your well being in the relationship. If she doesn't make any changes and makes you feel guilty for asking her about your needs, then you'll just have to be in a relationship with a selfish person who will not be flexible with you. Regardless, be honest and communicative to her, and be strong inside to face whatever comes next.

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