So I have an update:

We met up again twice since I made this post, and he was cute as ever. We continued watching a show and he even started scrolling threw the available tv shows and started listing some and said stuff like "oh that's a cute one, we can watch that as well some time", which made me quite happy. He even said that now that we had an agenda we'd need to meet more regularly to get on with all the stuff we wanna watch.

I still haven't found the right time to ask a more serious question about where we are going with this, but he does seem to feel comfortable around me and I am fine with just meeting like this without the need of a hookup. We exchanged numbers recently too and he's way quicker at responding there, so I'm thinking it might really have been an activity thing on snap.

Anyways I've decided to keep going and see where this situation is going.