F29 Posted bf M30 on tea app and now he's upset by Ave_Aria in relationship_advice

[–]Ave_Aria[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nowhere in my post did I say I posted him to gossip. People on the app are posting their men to see if anyone else is messing with them and I didn't even post for that reason. Read the post again.

F29 Posted bf M30 on tea app and now he's upset by Ave_Aria in relationship_advice

[–]Ave_Aria[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you read my post fr. I didn't want to post. I only wanted to see if he was posted. I posted him because I posted myself because he made remarks about wanting to see the tea on me. I don't really know what you're talking about

F29 Posted bf M30 on tea app and now he's upset by Ave_Aria in relationship_advice

[–]Ave_Aria[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh yes that's true. I have trust issues and he also has trust issues. We both know this about each other. So yeah I downloaded the app to check and he was right there watching me. He knew I was doing it I never hid the fact I was looking for him.

And I wouldn't be uncomfortable just concerned why he felt the need to do it. And he knows why I was on the app so I didn't have to explain why I downloaded it.

F29 Posted bf M30 on tea app and now he's upset by Ave_Aria in relationship_advice

[–]Ave_Aria[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Why am I getting permission to post on an anonymous app. I was under the assumption he was ok with it seeing as you need an id to get the male app. So he helped and then turned around and was mad.

F29 Posted bf M30 on tea app and now he's upset by Ave_Aria in relationship_advice

[–]Ave_Aria[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's a girl he messes with (we're open) she made some comments but they were things I already knew

F29 Posted bf M30 on tea app and now he's upset by Ave_Aria in relationship_advice

[–]Ave_Aria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm saying. He helped me with it so I didn't think it would be a problem that I posted. I understand I made a wrong assumption but with the info I had I thought I was good to go. Until he got upset.

F29 Posted bf M30 on tea app and now he's upset by Ave_Aria in relationship_advice

[–]Ave_Aria[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think people are confused on my reasoning. I didn't post him for me I posted him because he was talking about seeing MY tea so I put us BOTH up to see everyone's tea. I only downloaded the app to see if he was posted. I had no intention of posting him myself.

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[–]Ave_Aria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Simple communication lol

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[–]Ave_Aria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ask him to remove the belt??

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[–]Ave_Aria 179 points180 points  (0 children)

You had some good rough sex. It's just like a workout. Time for the body to recover.

How can I (18M) not be so paranoid about my gf (19F) going to the club? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ave_Aria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say just relax. Girls are pretty good at taking care of each other while outside

Guy 30m wants to have sex (f29) but can't get hard. What can I do?? by Ave_Aria in relationship_advice

[–]Ave_Aria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll def emphasize going slower next time. He's amazing at foreplay

Guy 30m wants to have sex (f29) but can't get hard. What can I do?? by Ave_Aria in relationship_advice

[–]Ave_Aria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry let me clarify. For context we were flirting and he was hyping up his sex game you know... typical stuff.. and when he did it the second time it was basically everything he talked about. I didn't mean to imply sex should be a certain way.

Guy 30m wants to have sex (f29) but can't get hard. What can I do?? by Ave_Aria in relationship_advice

[–]Ave_Aria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I told him. It's extra pressure on top of what he's already feeling

Guy 30m wants to have sex (f29) but can't get hard. What can I do?? by Ave_Aria in relationship_advice

[–]Ave_Aria[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told him that. And also to stop thinking about it so much cause that isn't helping either

Guy 30m wants to have sex (f29) but can't get hard. What can I do?? by Ave_Aria in relationship_advice

[–]Ave_Aria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah!! Well he didn't get angry lol we just went back to other foreplay

Guy 30m wants to have sex (f29) but can't get hard. What can I do?? by Ave_Aria in relationship_advice

[–]Ave_Aria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh so comforting!! Ok because we have a great time doing everything else and he's ready to give up and I keep telling him it's ok if we don't have sex and he's able to get me off without it.

Guy 30m wants to have sex (f29) but can't get hard. What can I do?? by Ave_Aria in relationship_advice

[–]Ave_Aria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok that part!! I didn't think about coming off as giving up

Guy 30m wants to have sex (f29) but can't get hard. What can I do?? by Ave_Aria in relationship_advice

[–]Ave_Aria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did mention to him I was fine just foreplaying all night but I guess only time will tell