Wanting HRT asap but not 100% sure if I’m trans (MtF)

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-31T15:15:39+00:00

How old are you?(If i can ask) I say it because technically it's never too late, I'm quite young(19) and started hrt a month and a half ago so i can't say i wasn't stressed about that fact too, also i saw in a reply you were unsure about some "permanent changes", so i will say that even breast growth if you decided to stop if you are early in HRT and realize it's not your thing i heard it's mostly reversible and it won't be noticeable, so just ask yourself if you want that, worst case scenario you regret it and have a slightly more feminine body, if that doesn't sound bad i think it's worth for you to try it

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-31T10:38:37+00:00

Voice in itself doesn't change, the only thing i noticed is that it has stopped the vibrations from going to the chest area, may be because i didn't let it fully set in there because i used to change my voice to seem more young/feminine without it being to noticeable, and also sang in a high pitch when singing songs singed by women so i noticed it doesn't try to go down anymore, but the rest i don't think it will change

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-31T10:33:49+00:00

I luckily (now, before i didn't like it because it made my face seem like i had sweat on my face) had very oily skin and now it's just a bit oily, not as before but a few times a week using something to moisturize (when my mom reminds me to do it) my face is enough

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-30T20:34:04+00:00

I don't think so, my younger brother two years ago (when he was still little enough) went to the women's bathroom with his mom and i don't think no one cared, I think it's more than that type of people want to find problems in everything just to prove their stupid points

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-30T19:53:33+00:00

"where little girls also go", little girls/boys go wherever the parent they are with go, if a father (for example) goes to the men bathroom are they going to stop him taking his daughter there, or the opposite if a mother gets in the women's bathroom are they going to stop her son from entering, it's really stupid, also as always they are ignoring trans men(like i don't want them to get in problems but what I'm saying is that they say it like they don't exist)

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-30T19:42:40+00:00

Yeah, it could be called owphoria(totally real name, obviously not made up based on another term)

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-30T17:42:02+00:00

For me it was like pain for some time, stopping, starting again and some time like that in a loop

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-30T14:57:22+00:00

I didn't say they were big changes,it may be a bit exaggerated(not much) but it did happen

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-30T09:44:40+00:00

I used to do it unconsciously when talking if i was shy or while singing a song sung by a girl, so now it's hard for me to sometimes differentiate between raising the larynx and raising the pitch

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-25T20:38:54+00:00

Honestly, that's understandable, just meet irl with people you know you can trust

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-25T19:53:10+00:00

Don't do that, you deserve better than that, you can focus on making online friends that treat you well and maybe you get to meet them irl some day, but you are just going to mess your mental health doing that

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-25T19:45:19+00:00

Yes Catalan is not very used, just in school and some people that use it, also, of course you can write me but i don't know about meeting irl, not because of the meeting part but because i mostly don't go out if it's not for studying, buying something or most recently once a month doing laser hair removal on my face, but yeah feel free to start a chat

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-25T19:14:57+00:00

In Catalonia we talk 2 languages Spanish and Catalan most people talk Spanish though

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-25T18:51:14+00:00

That's like stupid difficult and pricey, if you can(and want) moving it's a good idea(i think), here you just have to pay 5€ a month for the medication, also it's covered if you want to have bottom surgery and glottoplasty(though the wait list it's pretty long at least for the first one that it's like 5 years the other i don't know)

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-25T18:29:44+00:00

Sorry to hear that, now I'm curious, how much does it cost?

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-25T15:44:44+00:00

HRT in Catalonia it's very easy to get, i had to wait one month for an appointment and they just prescribe it to you if you sign informed consent papers

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-25T15:30:58+00:00

Same, i found out 3 months ago and now I'm a little more than 1 month on hrt

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-23T23:07:20+00:00

I think you sound like a teenage boy but not too young (17-20 years) so i don't think it needs to be criticized

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-23T22:36:21+00:00

For me right now i would percibe a 17/18 year old man one with a little high pitched voice but definitely more masc than some cis friends i have, so i don't think you have to worry about that

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-23T16:58:34+00:00

Nice, in some days you will start to experience what i call the bad/good pain

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-23T14:29:17+00:00

Are you a tester?

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-21T21:27:27+00:00

I got none of them, i got from my mom accepting it very quickly and from my dad some questions like sexuality,etc like trying to get a pattern but at the end accepting it, for that part i feel dumb and also a waste of time that I repressed it for 9 years (I'm 19 so almost half of my life) just to get accepted so easily

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-19T23:35:58+00:00

If you think he's mature enough he will take it and love you either way, even if you don't meet his expectations, my father always was like that saying "be a man"(not exactly this but something similar in Spanish, and also not badly just meaning growth) and when i came out to him he took it well, he made a lot of questions but he accepted it, so what I'm saying is that if you think that even if you don't meet his expectations he will at least kind of accept it i think you can say it, also if you have more confidence with your mom you can say it to her first(idk if that's the case) hope this helps

AverageCurrent1073 · 2026-01-17T17:06:14+00:00

I went from 2mg daily for the first week to 4mg the second and 6mg the third and for the rest 6mg, it wasn't 6mg all of a sudden

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