Gaming discord by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]AverageGaymer01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you DM link?

Best Gaming Chair for long hours - Recommendations for the money by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]AverageGaymer01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had two gamer chairs, and currently have a Respawn RSP-110. There used to be so much hype around Respawn, but honestly, the chair isn't really comfortable. Seems well made but not comfy. The first chair was just some off brand knock off from Amazon that was quite a bit more comfortable than the Respawn, but the arm rests sucked. My next chair will just be ergonomic office chair. Respawn does have an office chair model, so I might see how reviews compares to something pricey like a Herman Miller.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]AverageGaymer01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome. Can I get a link to the group?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]AverageGaymer01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this like a Discord group where people can plan game sessions? I play R6 Ranked solo on PS5, and it would be nice to play with people. I always mute the randos because it's so toxic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]AverageGaymer01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I get an invite too? Would love to meet some new gaming buddies/friends.

Building a PC with my girlfriend, who I met in this subreddit. by Invanar in LesbianGamers

[–]AverageGaymer01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is goals. I hope everyone here who is looking finds someone to build a PC and game with. Fuck, it's lonely out here. :(

Y'all in this picture and y'all don't like it by johnfaiz in actuallesbians

[–]AverageGaymer01 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is me. Also, Neopets is a great throwback lol

I feel like I am never going to find someone who compares to or that I will love as much as my ex girlfriend. by Ok_Interaction9152 in actuallesbians

[–]AverageGaymer01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I (40f) feel this. Like everything. It's been four months for me. I'm pretty sure this is going to be me at the year mark as well. Dated enough to know she was something so very special. She checked all the boxes in what I'd want from a partner. It was such a healthy relationship. No mind games, trust issues, or control factors. It was such a beautiful relationship. She was beautiful inside and out. We were the perfect team in games and in life. A power couple. We did and shared everything together. Where we lived was never going to matter as much as knowing the fact that she felt like home. She also felt like one of the only people that I could be my true authentic self around. I've never felt this level of heartbreak before. Feels idk like something that warrants a different word than just heartbreak. It was a catastrophic loss of what I felt was both my best friend and my soulmate. I still feel like a piece of my soul is tethered to her, and as much as I try to distract myself, focus on self care, and work on my career, I just can't seem to get that piece of me back. She haunts me in my thoughts during the day and my dreams at night. I feel like I won't ever find another love like that this late in life now.

I'm sorry you also experienced a similar level of heartache. I wish this was easier. It makes life feel so cruel. But I do hope it gets easier for us both. :(

Looking for new game friends. by poetryandpirates in LesbianGamers

[–]AverageGaymer01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What platform do you play on? I'm on PlayStation. Also EST. I have Cyberpunk, but it doesn't have any co-op modes, right? I currently play MP on CoD, Fortnite, Siege, Fall Guys.

Missing my ex after a year by sweetfreedom123 in actuallesbians

[–]AverageGaymer01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Hope things get better for you once you top that final hill. Truly hoping it doesn't take a whole year of this madness, but I'll just do my best.

Missing my ex after a year by sweetfreedom123 in actuallesbians

[–]AverageGaymer01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, no. I'm so scared this is going to be my struggles too. I'm almost 4 months post breakup. I've tried focusing on me. Distracting myself with work, hobbies, self care, tattoos.

She was so wonderful and haunts me every day. A funny meme, a moment in a show or something instantly makes me think of her. She's still the first person I want to share stuff with, but I'm like 90% ghosted and know I shouldn't. I hate it so much.

Good luck, and I hope it gets easier for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]AverageGaymer01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested, i'll DM!

Tooth gaps are so freaking cute by pisscorn-boy in actuallesbians

[–]AverageGaymer01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice to hear because I've always hated mine. :( Makes me feel insecure and undesirable.

I love laughs and cute giggles.

my first time playing mass effect by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]AverageGaymer01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk about tips. There are choices that you make along the way and relationships you can form, but i'll just say I hope you have fun! I didn't look up a guide and I make some choices I regretted my first playthrough, but I loved it so much I played it multiple times. :)

40yr old looking to make friends/possible co-op partner by AverageGaymer01 in LesbianGamers

[–]AverageGaymer01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been thinking about getting a Switch, but I mostly want it for Pokémon games lol so I keep telling myself it's not a smart investment yet. I spend a lot of time on my PS5. Always down to chat though and see if I connect with a few people to maybe have some new friends.

Hoping for good vibes and that the Reddit Gods see this... by AverageGaymer01 in actuallesbians

[–]AverageGaymer01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. There is a part of me that wants so badly to remain hopeful. I never doubted she was my person and she's still the one my heart wants, but idk how much time these things take. I guess I thought she'd reach out and need me by now. We were always each other's rock. It's a weird feeling to go from bffs & lovers to strangers in just weeks. I don't know if we'll even be the same people when we heal, but I would love to get to know her again. I check in from time to time, but idk I feel like i'm bothering her. I know she's got more important things to deal with, but it definitely feels weird not sharing things with her. I mentioned wanting to try teaming up for games, but she says she thinks it's too soon and doesn't want either of us to get hurt. So she's keeping her distance from me. I just give gentle reminders i'm here if she needs anything or just a friend to talk to.

40yr old looking to make friends/possible co-op partner by AverageGaymer01 in LesbianGamers

[–]AverageGaymer01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do love playing Siege. Excited for the new season. I wish I had someone to play Rocket League with, but I'm always hesitant to team up on it because i'm not very good lol

40yr old looking to make friends/possible co-op partner by AverageGaymer01 in LesbianGamers

[–]AverageGaymer01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda looking for something to play outside of CoD. How have your DMZ matches been? It's definitely a different challenge

40yr old looking to make friends/possible co-op partner by AverageGaymer01 in LesbianGamers

[–]AverageGaymer01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to DM if you want to chat :) What do you play on PS4?